Woman one and I have been talking for a couple of months now and went out a few times but she recently seems to be backing of rescheduling dates and then cancelling out on others. We have said that we are just friends, no strings attached so I have no problem with this. She made it clear that she was way to busy to get together this weekend but has the time to hit me up on a website we both frequent. Since we spent the night together she has really acted differently even though it was her idea to spend the night.

 

Now all of a sudden I have started talking to another lady, who is so far out of my league that is scary. She and I went for a midnight walk last night and have made plans to go and do something this week or next. She is the realtionship kind of girl who hates the whole dating scene.

 

Now lady one wants to keep things as are which is cool no strings attached, taking things at a slow pace and let them go where they may.

 

I have not dated in a long, long, long time so for those who have been at this recently what would you do?

It sounds like things could already be further along with girl #1 if she would have allowed it. I would go out with girl #2 and live life as it comes.

Woman one and I have been talking for a couple of months now and went out a few times but she recently seems to be backing of rescheduling dates and then cancelling out on others. We have said that we are just friends, no strings attached so I have no problem with this. She made it clear that she was way to busy to get together this weekend but has the time to hit me up on a website we both frequent. Since we spent the night together she has really acted differently even though it was her idea to spend the night.

Now all of a sudden I have started talking to another lady, who is so far out of my league that is scary. She and I went for a midnight walk last night and have made plans to go and do something this week or next. She is the realtionship kind of girl who hates the whole dating scene.

 

Now lady one wants to keep things as are which is cool no strings attached, taking things at a slow pace and let them go where they may.

 

I have not dated in a long, long, long time so for those who have been at this recently what would you do?

You need to get to a church, and quick! :sssh:

Man go with #2. You said she was out of your league (nice job btw) and she seems interested. Girl #1 hit the snooze button man so tell her to hit the bricks. Do not play games with her man, seems like she just wants to keep you for herself but doesn't want to commit.

 

So my advice is go with #2 and don't look back. In all honesty, no girl is too busy for you if she's that interested. If she was out of town or something I could see it, but from my experience a girl that digs you is going to make time for you no matter what man.

Girl number one and I live 10 minutes a part

girl number two lives right down the road from me

I feel a threesome (for a movie or dinner) would be the correct path to follow given the scenario you have described.

Definitely go with girl #2. Make sure girl #1 knows about her, so if it doesn't work out, girl #1 will want you even more because she is jealous.

Don't make any decisions until Rocket was weighed in here:banana:

I feel a threesome (for a movie or dinner) would be the correct path to follow given the scenario you have described.

About 20 or 25 years ago my heart could handle that but today thought of that could cause a full blown heart attack.

 

I should have added girl one is also out of my league I/M/O/

Edited March 8, 201016 yr by newarkcatholicfan

Don't make any decisions until Rocket was weighed in here:banana:

 

That is always wise!!! :thumb:

Keep your relationship with #2 and use #1 for booty calls.

Oh this thread has some SERIOUS potential....................

Keep your relationship with #2 and use #1 for booty calls.

As a guy I should be able to do that but me being would never do that.

If you are into mind games, stay with girl 1 (I really don't know too many guys that are into that though)......She is playing you like a fiddle....

 

Girl 2 sounds nice....I think you would be more happy with her....

 

Unless, you have stronge feelings for girl 1, then, you all need to sit down and have a long talk.

 

Now, girl 2 does not seem the type that would like you having a girl on the side. So, if you are at all serious about her, dump girl 1 totally. Don't look back. Hit the relationship with girl 2 hard and heavy.

Girl #2 for sure, IMO. Girl #1 said no strings attached, and she doesn't want to commit, why should you have to wait around for her.