September 5, 200719 yr There was a drunken night conversation at the bachelorette party with one of the girls there. Count on it...
September 5, 200719 yr We are 26, not like we are young kids. The ex fling was at the bachlorette party, but they are best friends and the ex is whats semi holding this together. So I dont think thats it. It revolves around that 3 week stretch of arguing I think. Rule #1...Your girl having a "best friend" that's a guy is a BAD idea....Especially if it's her Ex....
September 5, 200719 yr Rule #1...Your girl having a "best friend" that's a guy is a BAD idea....Especially if it's her Ex.... HIS ex fling not hers...
September 5, 200719 yr That's proally worse, girls gossip more than guys. Who knows what was said if they were both drunk..
September 5, 200719 yr That's proally worse, girls gossip more than guys. Who knows what was said if they were both drunk.. Thats kind of what I've been thinking
September 5, 200719 yr Rocket come up to NKY and we can go out somewhere and I will help you with the healing process.
September 5, 200719 yr I will give you the best advice-----------don't get married till after you are 30 years of age. Hearsay and I have freed many from the bonds of matrimony who did not heed this advice. Don't get me wrong, some get married (particularly in my area) very young and stay married happily for decades BUT if you are 26 there is no rush. Just let it happen or you will deeply love all your wives if you force the issue.
September 5, 200719 yr Ok the last girl I dated, met in a bar. The one before my roommate introduced us. The girl from the bar, she was shaddy, and the one my roommate hooked me up with, she smothered me. This one I worked with while in college at Wal-Mart, there was never any romantic interest cause I had kind of had a thing with her friend. Well the friend hooks up cause shes now married and thats how we got together. What about the other two questions?
September 5, 200719 yr Author I was looking long term on this one. All of these relationships have failed for different reasons. This one was a fight over her breaking plans with me one weekend when she was about to spend the following 2 weekends with her friends and broke a whole weekend w/ me for the same friends. I was looking at getting out of town this weekend, I'm up for a BGP pub crawl
September 5, 200719 yr You seem to be looking too shallow at the questions, Rocket. You are willing to go into long diatribes and great detail about the problems and what the women are doing wrong, but I had to drag out two vague sentences when I started asking you pointed quesitons about the roots. Did the questions make you uncomfortable? Are you really interested in breaking the pattern, or did you just want to rant?
September 5, 200719 yr Rocket, the first thing that strikes me is that you are trying to "force" things. You go from "relationship" right into "relationship". I'm not trying to be mean here, but IMO, you need to become comfortable with yourself, and able to be alone without feeling like you're missing something before you can be in a secure relationship. You seem to pick the wrong girls, and try to make it into what you want it to be, when it was never there to begin with. Anyway, don't get mad at me. But from your rants, this is what I conclude.
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