November 8, 201312 yr And the plot thickens even more... Not sure if it's OK to post this or not so will a mod remove if it's not... The issue is Jonathan’s treatment by his teammates. Jonathan endured harassment that went far beyond the traditional locker room hazing. For the entire season-and-a-half that he was with the Dolphins, he attempted to befriend the same teammates who subjected him to the abuse with the hope that doing so would end the harassment. This is a textbook reaction of victims of bullying. Despite these efforts, the taunting continued. Beyond the well-publicized voice mail with its racial epithet, Jonathan endured a malicious physical attack on him by a teammate, and daily vulgar comments such as the quote at the bottom. These facts are not in dispute. Eventually, Jonathan made a difficult choice. Despite his love for football, Jonathan left the Dolphins. Jonathan looks forward to getting back to playing football. In the meantime, he will cooperate fully with the NFL investigation. Edited November 8, 201312 yr by PurplePride92
November 8, 201312 yr And the plot thickens even more... Not sure if it's OK to post this or not so will a mod remove if it's not... The issue is Jonathan’s treatment by his teammates. Jonathan endured harassment that went far beyond the traditional locker room hazing. For the entire season-and-a-half that he was with the Dolphins, he attempted to befriend the same teammates who subjected him to the abuse with the hope that doing so would end the harassment. This is a textbook reaction of victims of bullying. Despite these efforts, the taunting continued. Beyond the well-publicized voice mail with its racial epithet, Jonathan endured a malicious physical attack on him by a teammate, and daily vulgar comments such as the quote at the bottom. These facts are not in dispute. Eventually, Jonathan made a difficult choice. Despite his love for football, Jonathan left the Dolphins. Jonathan looks forward to getting back to playing football. In the meantime, he will cooperate fully with the NFL investigation. Post the link.
November 8, 201312 yr Here's some of that but I don't think it's the same article: Lawyer David Cornwell says Jonathan Martin endured harassment, taunting - ESPN
November 8, 201312 yr Here's an ex teammate's take on things. He thinks Incognito is getting a bad rap. Y! SPORTS
November 8, 201312 yr After researching all of this and thinking about it all I have a theory about what happened. There have been some racial undertones to all of this, a lot of it by the media and instigated by Martin that Icognito was some kind of bigot that found a victim to bully. I do not buy that was the case. You have heard from some "sources" as echoed by teammates that they believed Icognito was "more of a black guy than Martin." I truly believe this is at the crux of it all. I am not black so I cannot speak to this, I only go by what I see, hear pundits convey, and by what I read on BGP. Sometimes in black culture (and please correct me if I am wrong), black people of more affluent statuses are looked down upon by their black contemporaries, feeling they "are not black enough". From all I gather the locker room culture can be rough and rugged. Martin, a guy that has always just played but not loved football, could no longer stand being entrenched within an uncomfortable environment because there were not many he could relate to. Some of that is on him for not adapting and embracing, but this is also the classic kid that got picked on in school because he had no other friends. He was Private Santiago. I do not think Jessup (i.e. Philbin) called for Icognito to pick on him the way it has been portrayed. It was an easy scapegoat because of Icognito's past and his barbaric behavior. I think it was calculated on Martin's part, but he did not anticipate the backlash from teammates. However he should have, because that was the predominate group he had the biggest issue with and they see right through it. Am I far off base? In summary I believe Martin was indirectly bullied by the locker room culture and picked on by many because he was different racially and socioeconomically.
November 8, 201312 yr Post the link. I thought I had it. http://www.thephinsider.com/2013/11/7/5079340/dolphins-bullying-jonathan-martin-richie-incognito
November 8, 201312 yr Yep, let's continue to stick up for this idiot.. Incognito Sexually Harrassed Female Volunteer at 2012 Dolphins Golf Outing
November 8, 201312 yr Yep, let's continue to stick up for this idiot.. Incognito Sexually Harrassed Female Volunteer at 2012 Dolphins Golf Outing No one is sticking up for him. But that incident has nothing to do with the current one. I've said in every post the man is a jerk. But the way Martin handled it was just as bad. I'm sorry if you are grown man the only way you get picked on is if you allow it. The only way someone makes you pay a tab is if you allow it. I'm sorry people can disagree with me all they want. As a society we have got way to soft. We always want to find mental reason for an issue or look at the "psychological" aspect of the bullying. At the end of the day not every event is that complicated. Richie is a bad human being by all accounts I can read. But it does not excuse the fact Martin is softer than ceral thats been sitting in milk for an hour.
November 8, 201312 yr No one is sticking up for him. But that incident has nothing to do with the current one. I've said in every post the man is a jerk. But the way Martin handled it was just as bad. I'm sorry if you are grown man the only way you get picked on is if you allow it. The only way someone makes you pay a tab is if you allow it. I'm sorry people can disagree with me all they want. As a society we have got way to soft. We always want to find mental reason for an issue or look at the "psychological" aspect of the bullying. At the end of the day not every event is that complicated. Richie is a bad human being by all accounts I can read. But it does not excuse the fact Martin is softer than ceral thats been sitting in milk for an hour. Please. First off, Martin would whip anyone on here's butt with ease with one arm tied behind his back. If he's soft, what's that make you and I? Secondly, what exactly should he have done? Stand up to Incognito, get his butt kicked, then have the bullying intensify? Go to the coaching staff? Nope, they're the pathetic wastes that put Incognito on to "toughening up" Martin in the first place. So what exactly could he have done differently to end it?
November 8, 201312 yr Yep, let's continue to stick up for this idiot.. Incognito Sexually Harrassed Female Volunteer at 2012 Dolphins Golf Outing I didn't see it in the article but anyone know when these files were charged?
November 8, 201312 yr I didn't see it in the article but anyone know when these files were charged? Reached a settlement agreement (paid to keep quiet) before they were.
November 8, 201312 yr I didn't see it in the article but anyone know when these files were charged? Forget it. Amazing, click on some links and you get the info you need. I stayed neutral on this because there were so many conflicting reports. After seeing that, Incognito should be gone. From where, I'm not sure. Dolphins, NFL, Earth...undecided.
November 8, 201312 yr Reached a settlement agreement (paid to keep quiet) before they were. The police report was dated May 2012. I was going to remain neutral until more came out if those charges were reported in the last week.
November 8, 201312 yr Please. First off, Martin would whip anyone on here's butt with ease with one arm tied behind his back. If he's soft, what's that make you and I? Secondly, what exactly should he have done? Stand up to Incognito, get his butt kicked, then have the bullying intensify? Go to the coaching staff? Nope, they're the pathetic wastes that put Incognito on to "toughening up" Martin in the first place. So what exactly could he have done differently to end it? Soft. I heard he also reported events such as being scared of his own shadow.
November 8, 201312 yr Soft. I heard he also reported events such as being scared of his own shadow. Care to address the questions I posed or just going to continue to make fun of him?
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