Wow. Right after a state championship. Problem in Park Hills as I’ve seen hundreds comment on coaches post showing love and upset this happened. Many people writing letters and emails to Principal Jack VonHandorf, and many unhappy people on Facebook.
Per Suli’a Facebook:
“Edit: I just received this from a parent. The principal asked me to resign, I didn’t resign for other opportunities. Yet, he didn’t want to state the truth in his email to parents. Let this shed a light of the person who is the leader at such an outstanding school and community.
Thank you.
Thank you to all the fantastic young women I have had the pleasure of working with. From the trophies to the tough times, I hope we all picked up lessons along the way.
Before you hear it from others, allow me to give a back story of what has has happened, starting all the way back to when I got to NDA, as I’m sure it is a shock to most. Starting off with this: I am not perfect, nor will I ever be, that is perfectly acceptable as long as we continue to grow. That’s been my motto for a very long time.
There was this tradition at NDA where players get cut their junior year if they weren’t going to have an impact on the field their junior and senior year. And those players getting cut are talented players. Maybe would struggle to see a ton of time on the field, but definitely deserving to play high school soccer. So as a fresh new coach at the school who loves this game, I chose to keep more players then what was done in the past, which families were super grateful for. Grateful as in sending long emails and cards to thank me. Fast forward 1 year, and those exact families were unhappy about the playing time. As the 2022 season concluded, those parents (whose daughters are graduating) painted a very ugly and untrue picture about me and took it to our principal, Jack VonHandorf.
This wasn’t the first incident of an unhappy parent, happens often in high school sports. However, I have had the privilege of having the two most awesome AD’s, Myanna & Susan, who support their coaches unconditionally. They know what’s right and what’s wrong, and if the coach is being treated wrongly they step up for their coaches. That doesn’t always happen, but those two are rockstars.
Our AD has supported me throughout this whole process, but has chosen to step away from NDA at the end of this school year. So the leadership decision came down to the principal. The false accusation, and ugly picture that the few families painted of me happened back a few months ago. When the other 80% of the program heard about this, they showed tremendous support. They met with the principal, all sent him emails supporting me. I told those parents, I’m not here to fight for my position because I have not put myself in a situation to have to do that. But my heart felt full when I witnessed the good in this world standing up against the bad, and the false information that was being shared.
Over the last 48 hours, NDA’s principal received emails from both parents and players expressing their appreciation for me and what we have done at this program.
God opens doors, and closes doors. I left the principals office today after being asked to resign without a single negative feeling inside of me. I know God does certain things because HE knows what is best for you. I know how much time, effort, and love my staff and I have poured into this program.
Lastly and most importantly:
The girls at NDA are fantastic. They are the hardest working, most competitive group of girls you can coach. Majority of the families are fantastic. I am so blessed to have crossed paths with you. So I want to wholeheartedly thank you for… being you. I want to thank the staff I had at NDA. I couldn’t have done any of this without you.
✌️out ?. I’ll be cheering you on for a very long time ahead and wish you all the success on and off the pitch. ?
With love,
Coach Suli“