Never, ever, ever, never in a million trillion years--no matter who or for how much money. My mind clicked off on other men on August 31, 1991.

 

:lol:

 

With a name like that, how can we believe you???

As I said, I have made mistakes in the past, but I have never knowingly had a relationship with anyone who was involved with anyone else. I figured that I would only ruin my relationship, not anyone elses. I did have some scruples, you know.

Never, ever, ever, never in a million trillion years--no matter who or for how much money. My mind clicked off on other men on August 31, 1991.

 

What BGP members may not know is 3xlover got married in 1984.............

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

j/k

You're still just a young pup fresh out of high school.

 

So what you're really saying, is now you're whipped!!!!

 

No sir I am not, its the other way around. The fact is that she is not a woman that hmmm how to say this? Well she's alot nicer than all of the other girls I've had, therfore she will get treated good:thumb: Just wait til I get to see you big guy, your getting it :lol:

No sir I am not, its the other way around. The fact is that she is not a woman that hmmm how to say this? Well she's alot nicer than all of the other girls I've had, therfore she will get treated good:thumb: Just wait til I get to see you big guy, your getting it :lol:

 

Atleast you got one thing right?!

Hmmm, I was going to say no absolutely not, until I saw the emotional part and yes I kind of did once. =/ Guilty. But, I left the person I was with because I had planned to do so anyways, I had just been with him so long I couldn't get myself to actually do it. Gosh I feel like I'm in a confessional.

I will say that the moral and ethical standards I hold myself to are fairly high. I don't believe that I could cheat, I just think my mind would be fighting to heavily against it.

 

This "emotional" cheating isn't a problem to me as long as it doesn't drag on. I mean, if you are with someone and start to like someone else, it isn't your fault. But just tell the current girfriend/boyfriend before you pursue anything with the new person. I guess something like this happened to me before whereas my ex had met someone and told me that it was just a friend for about a month, then we broke up and she still claimed it was just a friend for the next month, then I found out it wasn't. At this point, Not only are you a cheater, but a liar.

 

I have been in the situation that was described earlier where someone mentioned that another person that I knew to be in a relationship was pursuing me. I guess you could say that tested those "standards." Though I admittedly found it tempting, in the end all I could think was how I would feel 1) If I were the guy being cheated on and 2) About myself after this were to happen if it in fact would have. I couldn't do it. I don't regret it.

I will say that the moral and ethical standards I hold myself to are fairly high. I don't believe that I could cheat, I just think my mind would be fighting to heavily against it.

 

This "emotional" cheating isn't a problem to me as long as it doesn't drag on. I guess something like this happened to me before whereas my ex had met someone and told me that it was just a friend for about a month, then we broke up and she still claimed it was just a friend for the next month, then I found out it wasn't. Not only are you a cheater, but a liar.

 

I have been in the situation that was described earlier where someone mentioned that another person that you know to be in a relationship was pursuing me. I guess you could say that tested those "standards" but I didn't. Though I found it tempting, in the end all I could think was how I would feel 1) If I were the guy being cheated on and 2) About myself after this were to happen if it in fact would have. I couldn't do it. I don't regret it.

 

 

 

In that second part, in regards to the emotional cheating, you say that it is cheating and lying, I feel like I need to speak up for myself. I was completely up front with my ex. I told him what was going on, that I had met someone, that I had feelings for the person and I loved my ex but we just werent right for each other anymore. But I had met the person I am with now, while I was still with my ex. I don't feel, however; that I am a liar, you know?

I thought I told you to quit posting those pictures of me! :lol:

 

 

If you'd keep your shirt on....

Never cheated, not once...I have broken up with one girl to get with another, but that's as close as its ever been.

Never Have and never will .

Suppose you were not in a relationship at all, totally unattached. And you knowingly dated (either intimate or not) someone who was either in a relationship or married.

 

Would that make you a cheater?

 

Yes.

Yes.

 

Home-wrecker, not cheater.

Home-wrecker, not cheater.

 

Both.

 

You really DON'T want to get into a debate/discussions with me regarding this topic. So be quiet and listen to your older sister!

Both.

 

You really DON'T want to get into a debate/discussions with me regarding this topic. So be quiet and listen to your older sister!

 

Please dont tase me again....:eek: