December 19, 200718 yr You have struck no chord with me. I find it amusing that you claim that you have turned out fine, you were disciplined with the belt, yet the belt had no affect on your discipline and makeup. It seems very unlikely. Spend some time in a public school. The paddle Definately needs to be brought back there as well. I'll sign that petition.
December 19, 200718 yr You have struck no chord with me. I find it amusing that you claim that you have turned out fine, you were disciplined with the belt, yet the belt had no affect on your discipline and makeup. It seems very unlikely. Spend some time in a public school. The paddle Definately needs to be brought back there as well. If you want the paddle back in your school district, go to the board. Each local school district decides on whether to use corporal punishment or not.
December 19, 200718 yr If you cannot see where a grown adult hitting a defenseless child is wrong, then nothing I can say will be able to explain it. Furthermore, if my judgement of your discipline techniques infuriates you so much, then maybe I have struck a chord with you. I promise you that you have struck no chords with me. As I said my children are young adults now and I know that they think the world of me. I also know that no matter how hard I was on them they could come and talk to me about anything. But the best thing about it all is that THEY knew it also. And they still do to this day.
December 19, 200718 yr If you want the paddle back in your school district, go to the board. Each local school district decides on whether to use corporal punishment or not. Local boards do not have full power. A parent has to give permission under any circumstance.
December 19, 200718 yr Justify it however you choose. It is still wrong. Please tell me you're not being so BOLD as to say that God is wrong.
December 19, 200718 yr Local boards do not have full power. A parent has to give permission under any circumstance. I'll sign that waiver.
December 19, 200718 yr My whippings as a child had absolutely no bearing on were I am today. It is an ineffective form of punishment. I have taught and coached in public schools for 12 years. My football team is disciplined and successful and my classroom is disciplined and my students are successful. I don't have to hit them to get them to do what they need to do. There is no way that I would allow a school official to assault my child.
December 19, 200718 yr I wonder if anyone can tell me how many problems when had in our public school systems when paddling was allowed?
December 19, 200718 yr Scripturally, that is not the way it is written. It reads... Proverbs 13:24 (New International Version) 24 He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is careful to discipline him. Emphasis mine. Enough evidence for me. Me too.
December 19, 200718 yr I'll sign that petition. The Tater will too!!!!! I think there is a major difference in abuse and spanking. Not at all the same. I think a belt to the meaty backside is appropriate. Much more than time out. I am now to a point to where I wish I had used a belt more on my 2 sons. At 15 and 19 time out really scares them!!!!:rolleyes:
December 19, 200718 yr Justify it however you choose. It is still wrong. You are certainly entitled to your opinion but I firmly believe that children act like they do today because the dictates about discipline found in God's Word are not followed. Man made rules don't mean beans --- God's Word says that if you spare the rod you Hate your child. I will follow His rules---not man's.
December 19, 200718 yr My whippings as a child had absolutely no bearing on were I am today. It is an ineffective form of punishment. I have taught and coached in public schools for 12 years. My football team is disciplined and successful and my classroom is disciplined and my students are successful. I don't have to hit them to get them to do what they need to do. There is no way that I would allow a school official to assault my child. Why do you refer to it as assault?
December 19, 200718 yr Local boards do not have full power. A parent has to give permission under any circumstance. Good point.
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