June 15, 201511 yr I guess it depends on what your interpretation of "rudely thumb your nose at authority", obviously we have several rude posters on this thread, so who defines the "norm". As for the example I set for my children, I encourage them to question authority and challenge when appropriate. Just because an entity exists, doesn't mean that everything they do is in the best interest of their consumers....I mean after all, isn't that what this country was founded on, the challenge of authority and status quo ? Yeah, I probably set a terrible example for my children, but I'm pretty confident they will make it in this world, even though I broke the rules and yelled out loud at graduation.. You can certainly do whatever you feel is right, just so long as you don't complain if you're removed from a ceremony for going against the grain. They also have the right to challenge your behavior at an event that they are in charge of and have clearly set the rules for.
June 15, 201511 yr You can certainly do whatever you feel is right, just so long as you don't complain if you're removed from a ceremony for going against the grain. They also have the right to challenge your behavior at an event that they are in charge of and have clearly set the rules for. I got the impression that the superintendent's "rule" was introduced for the first time in the graduation ceremony printed program. Regardless, it's clearly a violation of freedom of speech, especially when this school includes "public" in its name.
June 15, 201511 yr You can certainly do whatever you feel is right, just so long as you don't complain if you're removed from a ceremony for going against the grain. They also have the right to challenge your behavior at an event that they are in charge of and have clearly set the rules for. Well aware of what consequences each situation may bring. I sleep well at night knowing that I am not going to be another blind sheep meandering off the cliff...
June 15, 201511 yr Well aware of what consequences each situation may bring. I sleep well at night knowing that I am not going to be another blind sheep meandering off the cliff...If challenging a rule through proper channels is being a blind sheep in your estimation, you have a lot to learn. As to how you sleep at night, I doubt the school system really cares, nor do I.
June 15, 201511 yr I got the impression that the superintendent's "rule" was introduced for the first time in the graduation ceremony printed program. Regardless, it's clearly a violation of freedom of speech, especially when this school includes "public" in its name. Are you talking about being illegal to have the rule, or to have them arrested?
June 15, 201511 yr What if a couple of people want to talk loudly at the theater when your watching a movie and disturb everyone...Is that fine? What if your sitting behind the family that wants to scream and yell and your video taping the ceremony for grandma that can't make it because she's in the Hospital. Your kid happens to be next in line behind their kid to have their name called but you can see them or hear their name called because this family is jumping up and down and yelling, pretty much ruining any chance to show grandma a video of her grand daughters big moment...that OK also? I'm not saying they should or shouldn't be arrested, just that it's not unreasonable to ask and expect people to behave in a proper manner.
June 15, 201511 yr What if a couple of people want to talk loudly at the theater when your watching a movie and disturb everyone...Is that fine? What if your sitting behind the family that wants to scream and yell and your video taping the ceremony for grandma that can't make it because she's in the Hospital. Your kid happens to be next in line behind their kid to have their name called but you can see them or hear their name called because this family is jumping up and down and yelling, pretty much ruining any chance to show grandma a video of her grand daughters big moment...that OK also? I'm not saying they should or shouldn't be arrested, just that it's not unreasonable to ask and expect people to behave in a proper manner. What is the definition of proper manner? I imagine you would get as many different answers as there are graduates in any class.
June 15, 201511 yr What is the definition of proper manner? I imagine you would get as many different answers as there are graduates in any class. Very true. Since it's the school's function and they set the parameters, wouldn't they be the ones to decide that?
June 15, 201511 yr What is the definition of proper manner? I imagine you would get as many different answers as there are graduates in any class. If they infringe upon my experience with my child that it's not proper behavior. If my kid is in line behind theirs and they are sitting in front of me and jump up yelling and I miss my kids 10-15 seconds going across the stage then IMO that is bad, selfish and rude behavior. You go to Graduation for one reason...to see, video or photo your child walk across the stage, hear their name called and receive their diploma...that only happens once and there are no do overs. If your actions take that away from me then you are not behaving in a proper manner.
June 15, 201511 yr Really...Showing respect for those around you is the same as being sheep lead off of a cliff? C'mon now!
June 15, 201511 yr If they infringe upon my experience with my child that it's not proper behavior. If my kid is in line behind theirs and they are sitting in front of me and jump up yelling and I miss my kids 10-15 seconds going across the stage then IMO that is bad, selfish and rude behavior. You go to Graduation for one reason...to see, video or photo your child walk across the stage, hear their name called and receive their diploma...that only happens once and there are no do overs. If your actions take that away from me then you are not behaving in a proper manner. Exactly. And that's why some people feel compelled to cheer.
June 15, 201511 yr Funny cartoon, but you do realize you conform everyday regardless if you like it or not?
June 15, 201511 yr Exactly. And that's why some people feel compelled to cheer. I understand, but do their rights trump mine to see my child also?
June 15, 201511 yr When I have been to graduations, and they ask the audience to refrain from applause until all graduates have been presented, I take it that to do otherwise is self-centered and disrespectful to others. By our attendance and the usual celebrations afterwards, every graduate for whom we have attended felt the celebration despite the fact that we did not yell and scream and clap after their names were announced. I guess all of our family will have to live an unfulfilled life.
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