August 1, 200917 yr It's the bride and groom's day. You are getting married and paying for the event, so do what you both want. If you want to dance down the aisle, do it. If you want to invite family and go to a tropical place, do it. If you want a nice quiet wedding, invite a small crowd or elope.
August 1, 200917 yr I saw the entire wedding party on the Today show last week. They are definately stretching their 15 mins of fame. They said they threw the whole thing together in about an hour. Looked like alot of fun to me.
August 1, 200917 yr LBBC- you are the last person I'd figure to browse collegehumor.com :lol: That was the first thing I thought as well. That was an awesome idea by the way, I would love to be in a wedding like that.
August 1, 200917 yr Call me old school but I think I would have been ready to go if I was at this wedding. The wedding ceremony should have some class and decorum. Dancing to Chris Brown down the aisle to what should be a special moment screams of "look at me look at me." Perfect for the reception. Classless and 1000% tacky for the wedding ceremony. Classless? Wow. The wedding day is a special day for the two people getting married and nobody else. They can do anything they want to as far as I'm concerned. Personally, I think it's a little refreshing to see things like this.
August 1, 200917 yr Author LBBC- you are the last person I'd figure to browse collegehumor.com Just when you guys have me supposedly figured out, I change all the rules.:lol::lol::lol:
August 2, 200917 yr It's their ceremony they can do as they please. Personally I think it was really cool. They needed a few better dancers though. :lol: Then you wouldn't have been their to "share in the joy of the marriage" that probably was on the invitation that you were sent. The wedding is about the couple, not the guests. $10,000 wedding gowns don't scream this? Aren't you supposed to look at the bride, groom and attendants as they walk down the aisle? Classless? Wow. The wedding day is a special day for the two people getting married and nobody else. They can do anything they want to as far as I'm concerned. Personally, I think it's a little refreshing to see things like this.I get what you guys are saying and can somewhat agree, but.... In a church? I mean, come on, really? I think that might be a big part of why Clyde has a problem with it and I fully concur. Not the place at all for that. Now, anywhere else, it's cool with me.
August 2, 200917 yr It just doesn't have the same ring to it if they danced to 'Leaning on the Everlasting Arms'
August 2, 200917 yr I get what you guys are saying and can somewhat agree, but.... In a church? I mean, come on, really? I think that might be a big part of why Clyde has a problem with it and I fully concur. Not the place at all for that. Now, anywhere else, it's cool with me. I know for a fact the priest at my church would never let that happen, but I loved it. What is wrong with having fun. Biggest day of your life, if you don't want it to be "boring" then spice it up. I do not think it is disrespectful just because it is in a church. I am a religious, church going guy, but if a couple wants their wedding that way, I have no problem and all the power to them. And after that, NO way the groom could bail out, probably helped his nerves a whole bunch.
August 2, 200917 yr I know for a fact the priest at my church would never let that happen, but I loved it. What is wrong with having fun. Biggest day of your life, if you don't want it to be "boring" then spice it up. I do not think it is disrespectful just because it is in a church. I am a religious, church going guy, but if a couple wants their wedding that way, I have no problem and all the power to them. And after that, NO way the groom could bail out, probably helped his nerves a whole bunch. I don't see how that can be anything but disrespectful in a church, but to each his own. What's next, Popping and Locking at a funeral mass?
August 2, 200917 yr Oh man that must have been fun! If the church allowed it (and make no mistake, they allowed it), I don't know why anyone else has a problem with it. Not everyone or every church has the same definition of what is disrespectful in a church. They were dressed tastefully, there was no cursing in the song.
August 2, 200917 yr Oh man that must have been fun! If the church allowed it (and make no mistake, they allowed it), I don't know why anyone else has a problem with it. Not everyone or every church has the same definition of what is disrespectful in a church. They were dressed tastefully, there was no cursing in the song. Is church not a place to show respect and reverence for God? Is it not a place of worship? A time and a place for everything. A church is not a place for that IMO. I have no problem with a wedding spicing things up like this, just not in a church.
August 2, 200917 yr Is church not a place to show respect and reverence for God? Is it not a place of worship? A time and a place for everything. A church is not a place for that IMO. I have no problem with a wedding spicing things up like this, just not in a church. I understand where you're coming from but how does the way they walk down the isle for a wedding have any effect on their worship of God? Where is it written that you have to be quiet and solemn during a wedding?
August 2, 200917 yr I understand where you're coming from but how does the way they walk down the isle for a wedding have any effect on their worship of God? Where is it written that you have to be quiet and solemn during a wedding?The best way I can answer that is, how do you usually see people acting in church? The way I'm speaking of or what you see in the video?
August 2, 200917 yr The best way I can answer that is, how do you usually see people acting in church? The way I'm speaking of or what you see in the video? You have obviously never been to a church on the south side of Atlanta where singing and dancing are accepted and encouraged. Does this mean they are wrong in the way they choose to worship because they are more vocal than other Baptist churches?
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