Tell him to hop on and ride that train until it derails!

 

Oh man....:walk: :lol: :lol:

That doesn't sound like a problem to me...

 

My thoughts exactly. :thumb:

I've had this problem before...He just needs to keep dating them all, when one comes along thats a true keeper, he will know and blow all the others off. Just how it goes, doesn't sound like he's ready or any of the girls are any he's truly wanting to have a monogamous relationship...

 

:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

 

 

I thought he was talking about you! :laugh:

That's horrible. I feel for your friend during this troubling time. Ha..feel.

Tell him not to do anything but to keep enjoying the ride.

He should be clear with all of them that they're just dating, and that it's not exclusive...but that if it gets serious so will he.

Are you sure it's "a friend of yours" or is this you we're talking about? haha, j/k! I dont see a problem with this at all. People date around, girls understand that. If they find out & if they really like him they'll just compete harder to win him over. dont sweat it!

 

:lol:Dude, you must know some really understanding girls...

:lol:Dude, you must know some really understanding girls...

In my experience, if he's up front about being non-exclusive, then it isn't a problem.

In my experience, if he's up front about being non-exclusive, then it isn't a problem.

 

Well, in my female experience, girls generally do not like being dated around on. What we say and what we mean are two very different things!:lol:

Does he actually want to have a steady girlfriend so soon after breaking up?

 

Why doesn't he just date different gals, such as he is doing, tell them that's what he intends to do, and let it go at that?

My friend just got out of a long relationship, about 2 years. Well now that he's out and about he's meeting alot of people, and has even managed to get him self in a bit of a bind. He's met a few girls, all of which he thinks are really great. He doesn't want to hurt anyone, but yet he doesn't know how to handle things because he's enjoying the time he spends with all of them. Now all of these girls are actually GF prospects yet he doesn't know how to handle it so that he doesn't lead anyone on and yet can still figure out what he wants.

 

We've talked about it alot, and he's made it clear he's not sure what he's ready for, but still they don't exactly know there's more than one girl he's interested in. Any suggestions?

 

Here's some good advice for your friend.

 

Tell him to smile and be thankful. One day he'll beg for this sort of "problem" and tell stories of "back when I was young", blah, blah, blah.

 

Or here's a joke that makes sense and is some what relevant. The young bull says to the old bull, "hey, let's run down there to the pasture and mate with one of those heffers." The old bull says to the young bull, "let's walk down there and mate with them all."

 

I think Confucious told that one.

If he is then he's gotta come clean with these girls, and me too.

 

If he is, tell him I need 2 tickets to their upcoming concert. :sssh:

Are you sure it's "a friend of yours" or is this you we're talking about? haha, j/k! I dont see a problem with this at all. People date around, girls understand that. If they find out & if they really like him they'll just compete harder to win him over. dont sweat it!

 

Hmmm of course it's a friend, but perhaps I'm experiencing some what vaguely similar to what he is, and therefore felt somewhat compelled to post about it.....

I hate your friend.

 

He just needs to be himself. If he tries to explain it to each of the ladies, he's going to come off as arrogant or commitment phobic. He just needs to be careful not lead anyone on by saying or doing something which indicates he wants to be serious with her.

 

So does this mean what I think it does??:mad:

He should be clear with all of them that they're just dating, and that it's not exclusive...but that if it gets serious so will he.

 

I'm pretty sure he's relayed that to atleast two of them, not sure he's gotten it completely out their too all of those involved thus far though...