I had 3 different high school coaches and 2 different college coaches. All three of my high school coaches would chew you out at time outs and they were very loud and times their language wasn't the best, but I thought they were great and had great respect for all of them. In college ,I had 2 different coaches and never ever heard them say a curse word or ever raise their voice. I had respect for one of those coaches but not for the other. One had character and the other didn't. I coached high school basketball over 20 years and I was loud and sometimes my language slipped but I know I had the boys respect. I believe in discipline and had it and I never ever had a boy talk back to me at any time. I don't know if I could coach the pampered kids of today with all the let do school policies. I see a lot of players talking back to coaches anymore. It was really bad at a college game I saw this week. I couldn't take that but college coaches have a lot to put up with to win and keep their job.