Beat Their Wives

 

A Saudi family therapist, Khaled Al-Saqaby, released an instructional video earlier this year, in which he gave Muslim men advise on the “correct way in Islam” to “discipline their wives.” The family counselor recommended a three-stage course of action as the safest way in accordance with Islam for men wishing to impose effective discipline on unruly and disobedient wives.

 

The first step in Al-Saqaby’s three-stage action plan recommended for Muslim men with troublesome or rebellious wives is to speak to their wives and admonish them about obedience. But if the woman persists in disobedience, the man should then move on to the second-stage of the three-stage action plan by “forsaking his wife in bed.”

 

Al-Saqaby advises Muslim men to hit and beat their wives only as a last resort. The family therapist suggests “a tooth-cleaning twig or handkerchief” as the appropriate instruments for the purpose of wife-beating. But Muslim men must be careful not to use such physical violence as an opportunity to “vent anger,” but as way of correcting wifely disobedience.

 

Al-Saqaby was at pains to explain that one of the major causes of disharmony in marriage which often leads to men having to beat their wives was women seeking equality with their husbands. Women seeking equality with their husbands present a grave challenge to matrimonial harmony. Some troublesome women actually provoke their husbands by hitting them and then daring their husbands to hit back, according to the family expert.

 

Saudi Family Therapist Advises Muslim Men On ‘Correct Islamic Way’ To Discipline And Beat Their Wives [Video]

Thank God I was raised by a very independent Catholic mother!

Is this really a surprise to anyone? It is well known women are treated like crap in Islamic nations. As more refugees from Islamic nations come to the US, we have to stand firm that this will not be tolerated in our country and if anyone wants to say by doing so we are being intolerant to them, GOOD!

My mom is glad she didn't marry a Muslim

Is this really a surprise to anyone? It is well known women are treated like crap in Islamic nations. As more refugees from Islamic nations come to the US, we have to stand firm that this will not be tolerated in our country and if anyone wants to say by doing so we are being intolerant to them, GOOD!

 

And if the refugees don't want to conform to American beliefs and ideas and laws, then they should be sent right back to their idiotic world where they believe that stuff

And if the refugees don't want to conform to American beliefs and ideas and laws, then they should be sent right back to their idiotic world where they believe that stuff

 

Yep. Because we don't have a problem with domestic violence in this country. You never hear about men smacking around their wives/girlfriends, and children are rarely abused. Statistically, only about 1 in every 4 women in the USA suffer from domestic violence...that's a number we can live with right??

 

And what all the memes you on social media that you see endorsing spanking our children...they are just meant to be funny.

 

The fact is, violence against women is a worldwide issue. It's not limited to Muslims.

Yep. Because we don't have a problem with domestic violence in this country. You never hear about men smacking around their wives/girlfriends, and children are rarely abused. Statistically, only about 1 in every 4 women in the USA suffer from domestic violence...that's a number we can live with right??

 

And what all the memes you on social media that you see endorsing spanking our children...they are just meant to be funny.

 

The fact is, violence against women is a worldwide issue. It's not limited to Muslims.

True...but they are the only ones condoning it.

True...but they are the only ones condoning it.

 

Many Americans condone an awful lot of violence in this country, and often advocate violence as a way to solve or prevent problems. Again, I refer to the common theme of how we should discipline our kids. The "spare the rod", and "we didn't get timeouts, we got whoopings" stuff you see on social media. How is that different from this video that was posted??

 

Again, violence against others is not a Muslim only issue. Just like one KKK video shouldn't be used to condemn all Americans, this video shouldn't be used to condemn all Muslims.

Yep. Because we don't have a problem with domestic violence in this country. You never hear about men smacking around their wives/girlfriends, and children are rarely abused. Statistically, only about 1 in every 4 women in the USA suffer from domestic violence...that's a number we can live with right??

 

And what all the memes you on social media that you see endorsing spanking our children...they are just meant to be funny.

 

The fact is, violence against women is a worldwide issue. It's not limited to Muslims.

 

Yes I spank my children.

 

But I dont have them stoned to death for stuff either.

I also dont sell my kids off in marriage.

I also dont make my daughter cover her face up.

I also let my daughter go to school.

And if the refugees don't want to conform to American beliefs and ideas and laws, then they should be sent right back to their idiotic world where they believe that stuff

 

 

Sounds like my mom!!!!

Yep. Because we don't have a problem with domestic violence in this country. You never hear about men smacking around their wives/girlfriends, and children are rarely abused. Statistically, only about 1 in every 4 women in the USA suffer from domestic violence...that's a number we can live with right??

 

And what all the memes you on social media that you see endorsing spanking our children...they are just meant to be funny.

 

The fact is, violence against women is a worldwide issue. It's not limited to Muslims.

 

 

Agree.

Many Americans condone an awful lot of violence in this country, and often advocate violence as a way to solve or prevent problems. Again, I refer to the common theme of how we should discipline our kids. The "spare the rod", and "we didn't get timeouts, we got whoopings" stuff you see on social media. How is that different from this video that was posted??

 

Again, violence against others is not a Muslim only issue. Just like one KKK video shouldn't be used to condemn all Americans, this video shouldn't be used to condemn all Muslims.

 

 

Another good post.

Yes I spank my children.

 

But I dont have them stoned to death for stuff either.

I also dont sell my kids off in marriage.

I also dont make my daughter cover her face up.

I also let my daughter go to school.

 

Deuteronomy 21:18-21King James Version (KJV)

 

18 If a man have a stubborn and rebellious son, which will not obey the voice of his father, or the voice of his mother, and that, when they have chastened him, will not hearken unto them:

 

19 Then shall his father and his mother lay hold on him, and bring him out unto the elders of his city, and unto the gate of his place;

 

20 And they shall say unto the elders of his city, This our son is stubborn and rebellious, he will not obey our voice; he is a glutton, and a drunkard.

 

21 And all the men of his city shall stone him with stones, that he die: so shalt thou put evil away from among you; and all Israel shall hear, and fear.

Deuteronomy 21:18-21King James Version (KJV)

 

18 If a man have a stubborn and rebellious son, which will not obey the voice of his father, or the voice of his mother, and that, when they have chastened him, will not hearken unto them:

 

19 Then shall his father and his mother lay hold on him, and bring him out unto the elders of his city, and unto the gate of his place;

 

20 And they shall say unto the elders of his city, This our son is stubborn and rebellious, he will not obey our voice; he is a glutton, and a drunkard.

 

21 And all the men of his city shall stone him with stones, that he die: so shalt thou put evil away from among you; and all Israel shall hear, and fear.

 

 

My kid isnt a drunkard.

Maybe you should come to church and listen.

Many Americans condone an awful lot of violence in this country, and often advocate violence as a way to solve or prevent problems. Again, I refer to the common theme of how we should discipline our kids. The "spare the rod", and "we didn't get timeouts, we got whoopings" stuff you see on social media. How is that different from this video that was posted??

 

Again, violence against others is not a Muslim only issue. Just like one KKK video shouldn't be used to condemn all Americans, this video shouldn't be used to condemn all Muslims.

 

Spin it how ever you want, but the treatment of women that is CONDONED in Muslim countries is not condoned in the US.

 

In nearly all cases if you resort to violence in this country to solve a problem, you are going to jail. People may advocate for violence in the case of murderers, rapist, pedophiles or others due to emotion related to their crimes. At the end of the day Americans will allow the process to work and those people get locked away there is no longer vigilante justice. Comparing someone wanting to see a child rapist get what's coming to him, again is much different than CONDONING Domestic Violence.

 

If it was only one video I would agree, but this is by FAR not the first report of women being treated this way in those countries.