So I was talking to a girl for around the last month and we started hanging out and she started coming over and stuff. We texted each other alot and she came over to my house around 6 or 7 times. She even went to church with me two times and went out to eat with the family.

 

She tells me on Tuesday night she wants the other guy. So it hurt but I was okay with it. We both work at a waterpark and on Friday she comes into work crying and I was like what's the matter, she said she made the wrong decision and wanted me. How the last two days she couldn't stop thinking about me. I was like okay then. So Saturday we hang out and go out to eat and see a movie and have a good time. I thought everything was well.

 

Then yesterday she texts me saying she is still confused. She goes to church with me and then tells me she is still in love with her x boyfriend who treated her like crap. She told everyone at work how she was going to be with me, making out a list of pro's and con's and I had 0 con's and how he had around 5. Everyone at work was really frustrated at how she lied to me. She tells me after church she still loves her x boyfriend.

 

It hurt alot it was like a slap in my face. I told her if you leave my house today wanting him, then don't text me or want me back. I gave you a second chance and you do this to me. I really did like her but I felt like she used me to get back at her x boyfriend.

 

The good news is I have deleted her number and plan not to talk to her again!

 

BGP's helps pass the time, feel free to have to express your feelings.

Move on to the next one. That one sounds a little unstable.

Sorry to hear that. But on another note I wouldn't have taken her back the second time. A lot of girls have a tendency of doing this, they want one guy but quickly find out they made the wrong decision and they expect the other guy to just wait around on them and take them back.

 

Question though, how do you plan on working with her? Do you see each other a lot at work? If she wants to be friends will you?

Just another fickle female . Why don't you pm 00Rocket28 for advice on this matter ?

Just another fickle female . Why don't you pm 00Rocket28 for advice on this matter ?

 

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I believe that you did the right thing, no doubt about it. Good luck, it already sounds like you are on the right track.

Sorry to hear that. But on another note I wouldn't have taken her back the second time. A lot of girls have a tendency of doing this, they want one guy but quickly find out they made the wrong decision and they expect the other guy to just wait around on them and take them back.

 

Question though, how do you plan on working with her? Do you see each other a lot at work? If she wants to be friends will you?

 

Well I work in the inside at the waterpark as a Manager, plus this is our last weekend we will be open. Sept 5-7. So that's good.

 

She still wanted to be friends, but I felt like she used me.

 

I forgot to put this. She said on Friday after she was crying, she sent her x boyfriend a message saying she wanted, "to give me (travis) a second chance. That really ticked me off there and I asked her about it. She said he knew what I was talking about. But really that just put him on the back burner. I told her that when she left my house yesterday, that if you want to be with someone who treats you like crap, and you told me one night you cried yourself to sleep over him then you if you go back to that, then you and me are over. Don't come back crying to me because you have hurt me twice. I'm not gonna wait around no matter how much I cared for you, I gave you two chances and I need to move on.

 

She was all all angry and upset at work, when she was the one who hurt me! I was okay with it, kinda mad and angry but I know I need someone who is their for me. I mean I was the one that should be hurting, but she didn't talk to anyway. I mean she made her decision and I hope it works out for her, but at the same time, I realize that I made a mistake for taking her back the second time. It was just like a slap in my face coming over Saturday night and going to church with the parents telling me that Sunday afternoon. So the car ride back to my house after church I didn't say anything.

Girls are psycho. End of story.

Girls are psycho. End of story.

 

This one didn't know what she wanted. She had dated this guy for a month. Told me that "She was in Love with him." I told her when we started talking I wanted to take this slow and didn't want to be the rebound guy. She said she liked that about me. I didn't wanna rush anything. She told me yesterday I just see you more as a friend. I was like what did Saturday night mean to you when we hung out?!? But I'm fine, gonna take a break after this one and worry about myself!

I'm glad I kinda told her that if she didn't want me now it's over.

 

This girl really liked attention from guys and she starts school at the end of September and I know that she will find a new guy that she will talk too, I would rather get hurt now then find out she cheated on me down the road.

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Read "Men > Women" by Dick Masterson ... that should explain everything.

 

A couple pearls of wisdom that you may want to think about ...

*Any girl who says they are in love with anyone after a month is clueless

*Any girl who ever tells you that they "just want to be friends" should be written off immediately.

 

My advice to you ... read anything that you can get your hands on by Dick Masterson as soon as possible. Everything will quickly fall into the right perspective ... and you will be prepared next time.

Dude, I can tell ya and HT can attest, I'm going thru the exact same thing, wishy washy girl I've been friends with for years who broke up with her cheating ex 7 months ago and she bounces between crazy about me to "confused" depending on my level of interest. I've finally just said screw it and done chasing. I put forth too much effort on this one :lol: Its much easier when you don't care

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Tough break man, hate that. But to get over one you just have to get under another.