One of the problems is that the schools are giving them one message that is the right message.

 

but the message they are hearing everywhere else is different and sounds a lot cooler but lies.

 

I dont think fear is the right message.

Maybe you and your friends did, but I've never lied, and I'm quite certain my friends werent either, I wasn't there in the presence of them having sex, but these girls arent as innocent as you think they are. There were a couple of girls I slept with in high school that said we didn't. So what you're saying is it's not possible that any girls lie for the sake of not looking "easy"? Get real, girls are just as likely to lie about NOT having when they really did, as guys are to lie about having done it. But I guess all girls are angels, get real, I've seen more than my fair share of crazy lying girls:lol:

 

One of the problems is that the schools are giving them one message that is the right message.

 

but the message they are hearing everywhere else is different and sounds a lot cooler but lies.

 

Just choosing to ignore that girls lie about NOT doing it?

I dont think fear is the right message.

 

What is the fear message that you are referring to?

 

Pain and death of STD's?

The responsibilities of being a parent?

 

That is reality not just fear.

Just choosing to ignore that girls lie about NOT doing it?

 

Don't believe that you and your friends went through HS without "stretching" the truth about sex.

 

Let me say what I believe from dealing with teens.

 

ALL TEENAGERS LIE!!!!!!!!!!

 

In my Business Ethics class, I use to pose the following situation while discussing honesty.

 

They tell their parents that they are going to Rocket's home on Friday night. They go and spend 5 minutes and then spend the rest of the night driving around time and doing whatever. Is that a lie. Usually about 95% of the teenagers said it was NOT a lie. It was their parent's fault for not asking if they were going to stay there the WHOLE night.

Don't believe that you and your friends went through HS without "stretching" the truth about sex.

 

Let me say what I believe from dealing with teens.

 

ALL TEENAGERS LIE!!!!!!!!!!

 

In my Business Ethics class, I use to pose the following situation while discussing honesty.

 

They tell their parents that they are going to Rocket's home on Friday night. They go and spend 5 minutes and then spend the rest of the night driving around time and doing whatever. Is that a lie. Usually about 95% of the teenagers said it was NOT a lie. It was their parent's fault for not asking if they were going to stay there the WHOLE night.

 

For the most part those girls told the truth to there friends which were our girlfriends, so....I just dont think they were lying about it...

And I've been out of high school for 8 years, why would I lie now? Trust me there were a few girls that "claimed" nothing happend but trust me, it did. Girls LIE

The idea that teens can't wait is simply another product of the secular and controlling left-wing of America, telling us that people can't control themselves. Let's take their money through taxes because they can't manage it themselves, let's give them condoms and birth control because they can't control their sexual urges, they can't control their weight so let's make bad foods illegal, they can't properly run a business, so let's make more laws to make smoking illegal.

 

The idea that all teens will have sex is only made worse when schools tell kids that they will have sex, whether directly or indirectly. I haven't had sex and I am about 10 months from the end of my teen hood. Am I a freak or what?

 

No one has any respect for the individual anymore. If people want to get condoms and birth control, then (legally) be my guest. But the schools and the overly secular wing of America should not be forcing their morality down people's throat. Furthermore, I don't support birth control. Why should my taxes be paying for it? It's outrageous what people think the government should and can do. If anything, sex education should not be in the school, instead of what is an unconstitutional allocation of tax revenue.

So would you rather your tax dollars pay for medical treatment and helping raise these illigitimate kids?

So would you rather your tax dollars pay for medical treatment and helping raise these illigitimate kids?

Neither. I'm not sure what you are getting at, I have had a fun night. :lol:

Neither. I'm not sure what you are getting at, I have had a fun night. :lol:

 

Thought you were saying that you didn't want tax dollars going towards Birth control and condoms.

 

 

An ounce of preventention is worth a pound of cure

Thought you were saying that you didn't want tax dollars going towards Birth control and condoms.

 

 

An ounce of preventention is worth a pound of cure

 

So, it is my responsibilty as a taxpayer to pay for the condoms and birth control of 15 year olds?

Thought you were saying that you didn't want tax dollars going towards Birth control and condoms.

 

 

An ounce of preventention is worth a pound of cure

Correct. I don't want my tax dollars going to birth control or condoms. It's unconstitutional and immoral. I don't want my tax dollars going to "medical treatment', although I am unclear on exactly what you mean here. Raising illegitimate children is another issue.

 

Maybe I am insensitive on this issue, but I have little sympathy for those who have unwanted pregnancies. You don't get pregnant without consciously taking actions that result in getting pregnant. It's not like cancer. The responsibility is entirely on the individuals.

Correct. I don't want my tax dollars going to birth control or condoms. It's unconstitutional and immoral. I don't want my tax dollars going to "medical treatment', although I am unclear on exactly what you mean here. Raising illegitimate children is another issue.

 

Maybe I am insensitive on this issue, but I have little sympathy for those who have unwanted pregnancies. You don't get pregnant without consciously taking actions that result in getting pregnant. It's not like cancer. The responsibility is entirely on the individuals.

 

Not in this country.

 

Heck in the other thread, it was said that the responsibility of a girl having an abortion was the people in church that might say mean things about her.

So, it is my responsibilty as a taxpayer to pay for the condoms and birth control of 15 year olds?

 

I'd rather my tax dollars pay for condoms which in bulk are probably pennies a piece as opposed to the THOUSANDS of dollars that the government will pay for these single girls having kids in the forms of medical bills, education, wic, foodstamps, etc etc

Thought you were saying that you didn't want tax dollars going towards Birth control and condoms.

 

 

An ounce of preventention is worth a pound of cure

 

So, your form of prevention is a nervous 16 year old boy in the back of a car trying to quickly put on a condom? And that is a good way to handle this issue?