Okay so I got rid of her as a friend and I told her why she said she understood. I just feels it's for the best.

Okay so I got rid of her as a friend and I told her why she said she understood. I just feels it's for the best.

 

Good job!! :ylsuper:

Close this thread. :lol:

 

I've moved on and now time to get rid of this. I'm better without her and I need someone who is going to be there for me at all times.

 

Thanks for all the support guys. :thumb:

No way man, you're a glutton for pain just like me, you'll be doing this for months on end, just like I've been doing since February :lol:

No way man, you're a glutton for pain just like me, you'll be doing this for months on end, just like I've been doing since February :lol:

 

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Nah I'm over here, and I think I told her that. But yeah I'm not adding her back on Facebook I couldn't deal with her status saying, "At Brad's, I love you Bradley." I meah she has dated the guy like 2 months. But yeah the guy is a total scrub. I mean if she wants that over me, then I don't need her. Everyone I had worked with this summer was like she is dating that? :lol: They were like wow..what was she thinking! ::clap:

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Nah I'm over here, and I think I told her that. But yeah I'm not adding her back on Facebook I couldn't deal with her status saying, "At Brad's, I love you Bradley." I meah she has dated the guy like 2 months. But yeah the guy is a total scrub. I mean if she wants that over me, then I don't need her. Everyone I had worked with this summer was like she is dating that? :lol: They were like wow..what was she thinking! ::clap:

 

I don't know how many times I've told HT, "dude, I'm done with her, sick of her crap." Then she comes over, snuggles up on me, or sends me some " I

I don't know how many times I've told HT, "dude, I'm done with her, sick of her crap." Then she comes over, snuggles up on me, or sends me some " I

 

Yeah I know what your saying, and yes if she did text me and wanna try again I would probley say yes because I did care about her and did have feelings for her. But she played me twice and I SHOULD not try again IF she would come back to me. I have a feeling she won't be I have taken every step deleting her number/removing her as a friend on facebook not to talk to her.

Read "Men > Women" by Dick Masterson ... that should explain everything.

 

A couple pearls of wisdom that you may want to think about ...

*Any girl who says they are in love with anyone after a month is clueless

*Any girl who ever tells you that they "just want to be friends" should be written off immediately.

 

My advice to you ... read anything that you can get your hands on by Dick Masterson as soon as possible. Everything will quickly fall into the right perspective ... and you will be prepared next time.

 

Not always true. I told PH that I loved him after only a week. I was only....well, let's just say that I was very young. I had only two boyfriends before PH. People told me it was puppy love....some told me that I was just in love because he was older (9 years)....no one believed me, except PH. We have been together every since. We will be celebrating our 20th wedding anniversary in Nov. Moral of story...don't believe everything you read and, sometimes, you just have to follow your heart....sometimes you just know!

I don't know how many times I've told HT, "dude, I'm done with her, sick of her crap." Then she comes over, snuggles up on me, or sends me some " I

 

This guy never listens. :lol:

Not always true. I told PH that I loved him after only a week. I was only....well, let's just say that I was very young. I had only two boyfriends before PH. People told me it was puppy love....some told me that I was just in love because he was older (9 years)....no one believed me, except PH. We have been together every since. We will be celebrating our 20th wedding anniversary in Nov. Moral of story...don't believe everything you read and, sometimes, you just have to follow your heart....sometimes you just know!

 

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Make no time for people who play games with your emotions/feelings!!

:thumb::thumb: Bingo, in my younger and dumber years.....I've been there - done that. That kind of crap doesn't work.

 

 

Man up and toss her to the curb. I am guessing you are less than 25?

 

Sorry to be so blunt, but the Tater has been around a while.

:thumb: Good advice Tater, I am not purposely bashing BBI at all. Just stating what I can see is going on and it is from experience from my much younger days. I played that game, went down that road more than once and was made the fool every time.

Dump her, in ALL ways!

 

BBI, I am not knocking you, I have done the same thing in my younger years.

 

Trust me the less interest you show her the more interested she will be. Most young ladies want ALL mens attention and it is a turn on to them if they think you are not interested.

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Okay so I got rid of her as a friend and I told her why she said she understood. I just feels it's for the best.

Great.....One thing tough, don't be concerned if she understood or not. That should not be a considration or priority (what she feels). Don't let what she says get in your head, be done with it.

 

Good Luck BBI. :thumb::thumb:

(you said you were under 25, I am more than double your age and trust me when I say you will get past it and will find someone much better :thumb:.)

I don't like girls. I'm so glad I'm a woman and only date men, in particular one amazing one who loves me despite my obviously opinionated and over the top attitude at times. I don't know how y'all do it really...girls are DRAMA. It's hard to even be FRIENDS with girls.

BBI, always remember, look out for #1 first and foremost. Sounds selfish, because it is, but that's the only way to make sure you don't get walked all over by other people.

:thumb::thumb: Bingo, in my younger and dumber years.....I've been there - done that. That kind of crap doesn't work.

 

:thumb: Good advice Tater, I am not purposely bashing BBI at all. Just stating what I can see is going on and it is from experience from my much younger days. I played that game, went down that road more than once and was made the fool every time.

Dump her, in ALL ways!

 

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Great.....One thing tough, don't be concerned if she understood or not. That should not be a considration or priority (what she feels). Don't let what she says get in your head, be done with it.

 

Good Luck BBI. :thumb::thumb:

(you said you were under 25, I am more than double your age and trust me when I say you will get past it and will find someone much better :thumb:.)

 

Truth

BBI, always remember, look out for #1 first and foremost. Sounds selfish, because it is, but that's the only way to make sure you don't get walked all over by other people.

 

Agree.