September 22, 200916 yr Yeah I know....I'm so dumb at the moment I accepted her friend request, thinking don't dwell on it and be friends, don't let her get you down and move forward. Remove her as a friend on their immediatly!!!!!
September 22, 200916 yr So I was talking to a girl for around the last month and we started hanging out and she started coming over and stuff. We texted each other alot and she came over to my house around 6 or 7 times. She even went to church with me two times and went out to eat with the family. She tells me on Tuesday night she wants the other guy. So it hurt but I was okay with it. We both work at a waterpark and on Friday she comes into work crying and I was like what's the matter, she said she made the wrong decision and wanted me. How the last two days she couldn't stop thinking about me. I was like okay then. So Saturday we hang out and go out to eat and see a movie and have a good time. I thought everything was well. Then yesterday she texts me saying she is still confused. She goes to church with me and then tells me she is still in love with her x boyfriend who treated her like crap. She told everyone at work how she was going to be with me, making out a list of pro's and con's and I had 0 con's and how he had around 5. Everyone at work was really frustrated at how she lied to me. She tells me after church she still loves her x boyfriend. It hurt alot it was like a slap in my face. I told her if you leave my house today wanting him, then don't text me or want me back. I gave you a second chance and you do this to me. I really did like her but I felt like she used me to get back at her x boyfriend. The good news is I have deleted her number and plan not to talk to her again! BGP's helps pass the time, feel free to have to express your feelings. She's the type who wants what she can't have. If you would have acted like you never wanted her back and played a lil hard to get instead of jumping right back in her arms, she would have been crazy over you. You don't need people like that though, it's a blessing she's gone. They tend to be mentally unstable.
September 22, 200916 yr Author Remove her as a friend on their immediatly!!!!! :confused: Yeah...I know that's what I should do...:confused:
September 22, 200916 yr :confused: Yeah...I know that's what I should do...:confused: She may try to pay attention to you but that will only be temporary. Make no time for people who play games with your emotions/feelings!!
September 22, 200916 yr Author She may try to pay attention to you but that will only be temporary. Make no time for people who play games with your emotions/feelings!! Good points...:popcorn:
September 22, 200916 yr Author She may try to pay attention to you but that will only be temporary. Make no time for people who play games with your emotions/feelings!! I plan on not talking to her at all if I do keep her as a friend, I just want her to realize I'm fine without her and good!
September 22, 200916 yr I plan on not talking to her at all if I do keep her as a friend, I just want her to realize I'm fine without her and good! You trying to prove that to yourself or her?
September 22, 200916 yr Author You trying to prove that to yourself or her? Both...I don't know...I still care about her..:puke:
September 22, 200916 yr Man you are ate up with this chick. You are not moving forward at all. You might want to get a shirt that says welcome on the back of it because this chick is wiping her feet all over you!!! Man up and toss her to the curb. I am guessing you are less than 25? Sorry to be so blunt, but the Tater has been around a while.
September 22, 200916 yr Author Man you are ate up with this chick. You are not moving forward at all. You might want to get a shirt that says welcome on the back of it because this chick is wiping her feet all over you!!! Man up and toss her to the curb. I am guessing you are less than 25? Sorry to be so blunt, but the Tater has been around a while. :lol: All good points and yes I'm less then 25.
September 22, 200916 yr BBI, I am not knocking you, I have done the same thing in my younger years. I was married from 25 to 34 been single the last 12 years and loving it. Trust me the less interest you show her the more interested she will be. Most young ladies want ALL mens attention and it is a turn on to them if they think you are not interested. I bet I will get some flak from the ladies on this, but they know it is true....:thumb:
September 22, 200916 yr Author BBI, I am not knocking you, I have done the same thing in my younger years. I was married from 25 to 34 been single the last 12 years and loving it. Trust me the less interest you show her the more interested she will be. Most young ladies want ALL mens attention and it is a turn on to them if they think you are not interested. I bet I will get some flak from the ladies on this, but they know it is true....:thumb: :thumb: Gotcha.
September 22, 200916 yr BBI, I am not knocking you, I have done the same thing in my younger years. Trust me the less interest you show her the more interested she will be. Most young ladies want ALL mens attention and it is a turn on to them if they think you are not interested. I bet I will get some flak from the ladies on this, but they know it is true....:thumb: BBI I am not knocking you either. Just trying to give you old person advice! We all do dumb stuff. Most men do the same thing. :sssh: You won't get any flack from me..it's the truth! :lol:
September 22, 200916 yr Keep her as a friend it may hurt a little to see her with a new man but you need some closure.
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