February 11, 200917 yr If I had a nickel for every time a girl has said that to me..... :madman: Errrr. Why? I just don't get it. Okay, I'm done, thanks for listening. In many aspects of our life we need to take a hard look at ourselves and determine why we are not successful. Maybe you're the problem. Re-evaluate, critique, and try a new approach if you're unsatisfied. Edited February 11, 200917 yr by Clyde
February 11, 200917 yr Not to play captain obvious here, but what she is really saying is, "Hey, I don't dislike you, but you are not offering what I want." Not that it is a bad thing, just stating the obvious.
February 11, 200917 yr In many aspects of our life we need to take a hard look at ourselves and determine why we are not successful. Maybe you're the problem. Re-evaluate, critique, and try a new approach if you're unsatisfied. I think that is the totally wrong way to look at it! Eventually he'll find a person that likes him for him. No need to change for anyone. If I changed for every girl I liked I'd probably be in prison right now. I ended up with a bit of luck, me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years now. But there was no need to change anything. :thumb:
February 11, 200917 yr Okay...this explains a lot. :ohbrother: Post tamperer!!!!! Quote me in context!:idunno:
February 11, 200917 yr From my experience it's usually that there's more than one guy that she's interested in. Ususally that line can also translate directly to "I like you, but I like other people too, and I'm not sure if I like you enough to date just you". That, or "I'm already seeing someone else, so let's break up so I don't have to feel guilty about doing it behind your back."
February 11, 200917 yr Post tamperer!!!!! Quote me in context!:idunno:Huh? Nobody changed your post. The point I was trying to make is that your theory might explain all the "adventures in dating" that you've shared with us. :irked:
February 11, 200917 yr If I had a nickel for every time a girl has said that to me..... :madman: Errrr. Why? I just don't get it. Okay, I'm done, thanks for listening. Bugatti made a similar statement but I wanted to tell you from a female perspective. It does mean she is not interested in you as far as dating. However that doesn't mean there is something wrong with you. It means there is someone else out there for you. Take the high road and see if you all can just be friends. I have been asked out and I have said no just because I really was not interested. Not saying that you are...but try not to look to date someone and see what happens.
February 11, 200917 yr I think that is the totally wrong way to look at it! Eventually he'll find a person that likes him for him. No need to change for anyone. If I changed for every girl I liked I'd probably be in prison right now. I ended up with a bit of luck, me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years now. But there was no need to change anything. :thumb: If he's interested in a bunch of girls that are not interested in him its probably him, right? That's not necessarily a bad thing but lets be honest. Self-evaluation is always beneficial.
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