October 18, 201114 yr The family wants more time to figure it out and choose.? From the article: But while chemicals are giving children like Tommy more time to decide which side of the fence they belong on, some critics say that some children who question their identity at a very young age might change their mind when they start adolescence. "Most transgender patients will say that they knew at 6 years old. But what we don't know is how many others had those thoughts and feelings that went away once they hit puberty," said Dr. Jeffrey Spiegel, a professor at Boston University and a plastic surgeon who specializes in facial feminization operations for transgender men. "While it may be a good therapy for those who've committed to transgender, it may not be good for those who might have changed their mind once they hit puberty and beyond." Read more: http://www.foxnews.com/us/2011/10/17/controversial-therapy-for-young-transgender-patients-raises-questions/#ixzz1b68mY000
October 18, 201114 yr Real life decisions being considered because of childhood fantasy. I'm on the side of those who say the hormone blocker idea is ridiculous.
October 18, 201114 yr With all due respect the "parents" are nuts and the child should be removed from their custody (and yes I would feel the same way if it was a traditional family). They say that the child started saying he was a girl at age 3 and give that as reason for doing this. Raise the child as a boy which is it's biological sex and then when he's and adult if he wants to self mutilate and have the surgery go for it. Only had to read three posts to find a winner... :thumb:
October 18, 201114 yr I'm not defending the parents, but you guys who are 100% against what's going on would be okay with the child self mutilating his own genitals at age 7?
October 18, 201114 yr I'm not defending the parents, but you guys who are 100% against what's going on would be okay with the child self mutilating his own genitals at age 7? UK--to that I would say that kids say lots of stuff to get attention. Scare tactics. Manipulation. Kids are smart.
October 18, 201114 yr UK--to that I would say that kids say lots of stuff to get attention. Scare tactics. Manipulation. Kids are smart. And if he goes through with it? If your child kept constantly threatening to inflict pain to themselves, you wouldn't be concerned? You would just dismiss it?
October 18, 201114 yr I'm not defending the parents, but you guys who are 100% against what's going on would be okay with the child self mutilating his own genitals at age 7?No. It sounds like the kid needs psychiatric help. Hormone blockers aren't the answer though.
October 18, 201114 yr No. It sounds like the kid needs psychiatric help. Hormone blockers aren't the answer though. And I agree with that. It sounds from the article that the parents have taken the kid to therapy for quite a while, which makes me think this was the recommendation of a therapist. If that's the case, shouldn't the brunt of this fall on the therapist?
October 18, 201114 yr I agree with FKYW... with the added caveat that the parents need some counseling too...
October 18, 201114 yr I agree with FKYW... with the added caveat that the parents need some counseling too...Without a doubt.
October 18, 201114 yr And I agree with that. It sounds from the article that the parents have taken the kid to therapy for quite a while, which makes me think this was the recommendation of a therapist. If that's the case, shouldn't the brunt of this fall on the therapist?It's hard to tell exactly how the parents came to this decision. But yes, I guess you could assume that the therapist recommended this. If that's the case then the therapist should be taken to task for this as well as the parents.
November 1, 201114 yr If you don't agree with them, what do you think they should do? Also, does anyone think that the parents being a lesbian couple have anything to do with this kids "mental disorder" ? I could see where the boy might be confused about, well, being a boy since he has 2 parents that are girls. I wonder if he has any male role models in his life to associate with?
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