December 23, 200817 yr Well if I can't even think about this 6 years into a relationship then I need to get out. :lol: Wow 6 years. You're a trooper. I have no idea how I'm going to get married. After a couple of months, I'm like. eh.
December 23, 200817 yr :thumb: PMIC listened to me on this and he's glad he did If you were say 25 or older RR I'd say be mature, but you're 21, and likely in 5 years none of these girls will even matter to you:thumb: I feel like you are the devil sitting on one shoulder, and there are a few people who are angels sitting on my other shoulder. I know I should listen to the angels, but you are so convincing, haha.
December 23, 200817 yr Na don't. Unless you want that rep following you with every girl you date. And when she asks that question "so have you ever cheated or done anything shady?" and you respond "no" youre already starting off the relationship on a lie. Keep your dignity. Shenanigans! IF they aren't together it's not cheating! And I don't know many people that have never had some sort of fling in there life and if he has a 1 night stand in his past, then it shouldn't matter at all to the new GF, cause it's his past, not his present and truthfully it's not the new girls business
December 23, 200817 yr How is this cheating or shady? He found the young lady attractive and tried to see what was there.. :walk: It's not cheating. It's shady. And immature. Girls aren't turned on when a guy does stuff like this. I'm just saying..I mean I don't know for sure, as I'm only ONE girl, but it's kinda a red flag. A night out with the guys, and having a whole lot of fun, possibly getting drunk out of his mind is much better revenge to a girl. Because then she realizes you arent sitting around crying over her. And trust me, that hurts.
December 23, 200817 yr I am a year and a two months in on mine...pretty happy with it too. So was I, up until the 2 year mark when all of this happened! Treat her well so she doesn't even talk to other guys!
December 23, 200817 yr I feel like you are the devil sitting on one shoulder, and there are a few people who are angels sitting on my other shoulder. I know I should listen to the angels, but you are so convincing, haha. Rocket is probably the last member on here who should be giving you relationship/girl advice lol.
December 23, 200817 yr Wow 6 years. You're a trooper. I have no idea how I'm going to get married. After a couple of months, I'm like. eh. 2 months?? Wow, do you have A.D.D.?? :lol:
December 23, 200817 yr Shenanigans! IF they aren't together it's not cheating! And I don't know many people that have never had some sort of fling in there life and if he has a 1 night stand in his past, then it shouldn't matter at all to the new GF, cause it's his past, not his present and truthfully it's not the new girls business When a guy I am starting to date has a whole slew of one night stands in his past, I'm usually kind of turned off. Who my boyfriend has slept with actually IS my business if I plan on sleeping with him too. And if he can't even remember half of them..no dice.
December 23, 200817 yr I feel like you are the devil sitting on one shoulder, and there are a few people who are angels sitting on my other shoulder. I know I should listen to the angels, but you are so convincing, haha. Dude, seriously, who do you think you should listen to, a GIRL??? Or several guys, IE. GT,me, PMIC who have been here, and HT doesn't count, he's been with his g/f for 6 years, thus they obviously have a healthy relationship and he doesn't really know what he'd do in this situation!
December 23, 200817 yr When a guy I am starting to date has a whole slew of one night stands in his past, I'm usually kind of turned off. Who my boyfriend has slept with actually IS my business if I plan on sleeping with him too. And if he can't even remember half of them..no dice. The past is the past..
December 23, 200817 yr So was I, up until the 2 year mark when all of this happened! Treat her well so she doesn't even talk to other guys! haha...well I do treat her well and honestly I am not worried about her at all. Find yourself a girl who has been cheated on and screwed over before, then you can slide in and take her breath away lol. Plus, she knows how much it sucks to get hurt, so she will be much less likely to hurt you.
December 23, 200817 yr 2 months?? Wow, do you have A.D.D.?? :lol: No, just they haven't been the right guy I guess. I'm not too worried about it. I figure the one I'm supposed to be with will make me stay around longer than 2 months.
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