December 20, 200718 yr Author You can take a position and not be judgemental. However, that is not what most people do. I think more than likely, it is not what most people assume that person is doing.
December 20, 200718 yr Author No...we are talking about why some people might make the decision to have an abortion. Like it or not, all of this "Jamie Spears is worthless" stuff isn't going to help young girls make the decision to keep a baby after making a poor choice to have unprotected sex. That is the reality of our actions. So, it is society's fault that they are having an abortion? Society may not create the best and most supportive environment for them, but the responsibility for their abortion and the fallout of it lies firmly on their shoulders and if it was banned, the doctors' shoulders. I do agree that society and government needs to do more to create an environment that a) gets girls to understand that they do NOT NEED TO BE HAVING unprotected sex outside of marriage; b) provide their child with the child's needs if the family cannot.
December 20, 200718 yr So, it is society's fault that they are having an abortion? Society may not create the best and most supportive environment for them, but the responsibility for their abortion and the fallout of it lies firmly on their shoulders and if it was banned, the doctors' shoulders. I do agree that society and government needs to do more to create an environment that a) gets girls to understand that they do NOT NEED TO BE HAVING unprotected sex outside of marriage; b) provide their child with the child's needs if the family cannot. But we don't quit needing to be judgemental toward those that do? People have always made mistakes...kids and young adults moreso sometimes. I am just pointing out that our own actions (and words) sometimes play into the beliefs and decisions that other make.
December 20, 200718 yr So, because of their age, they get a free reign to do whatever they want? LBBC it all comes down to the fact that you believe abortion to be the taking of another's life and there are others who do not. It is not that they believe that killing babies is okay, it is that they believe that an abortion is ending a pregnancy before life begins. Your outrage (not used perjoratively) on this subject stems from your belief, but about 60% of the American people don't share that belief. If they DID, abortions would be outlawed. Until science and medicine reach a conclusive decision on the matter there will continue to be abortions, and maybe when they do reach a decision there will continue to be abortions.
December 20, 200718 yr Author LBBC it all comes down to the fact that you believe abortion to be the taking of another's life and there are others who do not. . Is the fetus going to be a watermelon? A corn cob? A goat? A basketball? A robot? It is going to be a human life. The others can fool themselves with that position all they want but it is fool's gold.
December 20, 200718 yr Author It is not that they believe that killing babies is okay, it is that they believe that an abortion is ending a pregnancy before life begins. Your outrage (not used ) on this subject stems from your belief, but about 60% of the American people don't share that belief. If they DID, abortions would be outlawed. Until science and medicine reach a conclusive decision on the matter there will continue to be abortions, and maybe when they do reach a decision there will continue to be abortions. Science and medicine have no part to play in the decision that this country should make. Did we need scientific and medical proof to know that blacks were humans like us and deserved fully human rights like us? No, than God, this country came to it's senses and realized we were wrong with that position in this country. I hope I am still alive when this country comes to it's senses on this issue, too. By belief, if you mean faith, I can argue this position without ever bringing faith into the argument. And honestly most times I do. It is wrong whether I am a Christian, a Hindu, an Islamic, or an atheist. BTW, I am not sure whether to be offended by perjoratively or not. I don't know what it means.
December 20, 200718 yr Author But we don't quit needing to be judgemental toward those that do? People have always made mistakes...kids and young adults moreso sometimes. I am just pointing out that our own actions (and words) sometimes play into the beliefs and decisions that other make. I am assuming you meant, "Don't we" cause the way it is written, I am not sure what I am supposed to be answering. By judgemental, you mean withdrawing our support and aid, yes we do not need to be judgemental. If by judgemental, we don't need to take a stance that sex outside of marriage leads to multiple problems, then I disagree with you. We can take the stance that sex outside of marriage is wrong and still be supportive of the person. Same with homosexuality, action is wrong but loving and supportive of the person. Same with lying, action is wrong and will not abide it but loving and supportive of the person. And I have made my share of mistakes and will continue to do so. I think the last sentence is a crutch to make the person feel better about themselves than anything. You know why I am overweight? Because I eat too much of the wrong thing. Not McDonald's fault. Not Hershey's fault. Not Kellogg's fault (I love me some Frosted Flakes). Not anyone's fault but MY OWN!!!!! Now I could blame it on McDonald's for not making healthy food. I could blame it on Hershey's for not making Sugar Free Reese Cups as available as the regular ones. But you know, IT IS MY FAULT!!!!!!!
December 20, 200718 yr Is the fetus going to be a watermelon? A corn cob? A goat? A basketball? A robot? It is going to be a human life. The others can fool themselves with that position all they want but it is fool's gold. That is fine, but that is their position - and as a result it is a legitimate disagreement. And as long as that disagreement exists . . . Some birth control pills prevent a fertilized egg from attaching to the Uterus wall - do you want to outlaw birth control as well.
December 20, 200718 yr Author That is fine, but that is their position - and as a result it is a legitimate disagreement. And as long as that disagreement exists . . . Some birth control pills prevent a fertilized egg from attaching to the Uterus wall - do you want to outlaw birth control as well. There was a legitimate disagreement in people's eyes to continue slavery, that helped lead us to the Civil War. Is that acceptable to you? Has conception occurred? Medically, I don't know enough about what you are saying.
December 20, 200718 yr Author Dealing with teenagers, you give them a crutch for their actions and they will gladly and readily accept it. I deal DAILY with trying to get teenagers to be responsible for their actions and quit passing their blame onto someone else.
December 20, 200718 yr Dealing with teenagers, you give them a crutch for their actions and they will gladly and readily accept it. I deal DAILY with trying to get teenagers to be responsible for their actions and quit passing their blame onto someone else. I think TB&G deals with plenty of teenagers in his/her daily life, and they are held plenty accountable.
December 20, 200718 yr Birth Control is not bad.. It is used for other medical needs than to just prevent pregnancy.
December 20, 200718 yr LBBC it all comes down to the fact that you believe abortion to be the taking of another's life and there are others who do not. It is not that they believe that killing babies is okay, it is that they believe that an abortion is ending a pregnancy before life begins. Your outrage (not used perjoratively) on this subject stems from your belief, but about 60% of the American people don't share that belief. If they DID, abortions would be outlawed. Until science and medicine reach a conclusive decision on the matter there will continue to be abortions, and maybe when they do reach a decision there will continue to be abortions. Do you really think that abortion doesn't kill a living thing?
December 20, 200718 yr Author Birth Control is not bad.. It is used for other medical needs than to just prevent pregnancy. I hope you did not think I implied it was.
December 20, 200718 yr Wrong. It is not illegal to use anabolic steroids or HGH. Are they a controlled substance?
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