October 23, 200718 yr I didnt mess anything up though it all came out of no where, I mean I'm open to dating someone, but its like, if I'm gonna have a girlfriend, I want it with someone I'm really into, and not just dating someone for the sake of dating. What I dont get however is my ex that left me continues to look at my myspace semi frequently(i have a tracker), yet she won't talk to me? I dont understand whats going on in her head, and apparently neither do her friends because one of them msgd me the other day saying that they were on my side through it all and dont really know what happened with her, I dunno, I've given up trying to figure it out It sounds to me like she is wanting to have her cake an eat it too.... that she is wanting her freedom to do whatever she wants and see whoever she wants, but at the same time, wants to be able to keep you close enough as a fallback plan. I guarantee she'd make an appearance again if you were in a relationship with someone else, if for no other reason but to mess with your head and try to sabotage whatever you have goin on... Comittment issues maybe on her part?
October 23, 200718 yr If Jimmy cracks corn and I don't care, why am I singing a song about him cracking corn? 'Cause you secretly wished you were cracking corn as well, I know I'd like to be able to make my own cornbread from scratch...
October 23, 200718 yr It sounds to me like she is wanting to have her cake an eat it too.... that she is wanting her freedom to do whatever she wants and see whoever she wants, but at the same time, wants to be able to keep you close enough as a fallback plan. I guarantee she'd make an appearance again if you were in a relationship with someone else, if for no other reason but to mess with your head and try to sabotage whatever you have goin on... Comittment issues maybe on her part? I think thats it, she's not that shallow to do the other stuff, we have mutual friends and they've all said she isnt seeing anyone, shes debated b/w moving to nashville, moving to st lou and going back to school ever since we broke up, shes got some issues
October 23, 200718 yr I think thats it, she's not that shallow to do the other stuff, we have mutual friends and they've all said she isnt seeing anyone, shes debated b/w moving to nashville, moving to st lou and going back to school ever since we broke up, shes got some issues Yeah... she actually sounds alot like myself HAHA... Everything comes back full circle in this one, the less you seem to care about her will tell you all you need to know. If she makes no effort to contact you and see what's up, then it is time to move on until she grows out of this stage, if she checks in with you then she still has feelings, at that point it becomes imperative not to think that eveything is about to go back to normal or else she'll just get pushed away. I had been in a relationship similar to this for about 2 years where it has been on/off/on/off, only recently have I finally just distanced myself so I could focus on what I need to get done with my life. Don't know if this is anything you can use, cause when it all coems down to it, the bottom line is Girls are psycho,,, every single one of em.
October 23, 200718 yr Well she hasnt made really any effort to contact me but I was calling her bout once every 5 or 6 days, but it's been about 2 weeks since I've tried to contact her, I think she'll wait till im finally over her and moving on and she'll come in and try and ruin my life again lol And yes everything yoru saying makes sense!
October 23, 200718 yr Yeah... she actually sounds alot like myself HAHA... Everything comes back full circle in this one, the less you seem to care about her will tell you all you need to know. If she makes no effort to contact you and see what's up, then it is time to move on until she grows out of this stage, if she checks in with you then she still has feelings, at that point it becomes imperative not to think that eveything is about to go back to normal or else she'll just get pushed away. I had been in a relationship similar to this for about 2 years where it has been on/off/on/off, only recently have I finally just distanced myself so I could focus on what I need to get done with my life. Don't know if this is anything you can use, cause when it all coems down to it, the bottom line is Girls are psycho,,, every single one of em. :thumb: especially the last line.
October 23, 200718 yr Well she hasnt made really any effort to contact me but I was calling her bout once every 5 or 6 days, but it's been about 2 weeks since I've tried to contact her, I think she'll wait till im finally over her and moving on and she'll come in and try and ruin my life again lol And yes everything yoru saying makes sense! HAHA Yeah,,, that's probably what will happen... I can't predict what will happen at that point but I'd be willing to bet it will be 1 of 3 things: 1) You've grown close enough to the new girl that you don't give a darn and blow her off teaching her a valuable life lesson she needs to learn 2) You start thinking "Maybe it will work this time around", thus sabotaging the current realtionship, and then find the same thing happens all over again 3) Restraining orders and court fees as you try to keep your car from being keyed and tires from being slahed, and my personal favoite, your current girl from being threatened by a girl she doesn't even know... :lol:
October 23, 200718 yr Well right now there is no current girl ... and thus the hunt continues... always look for the trophy marlin, but never go back to shore empty handed, even if it means you got to snag a whale LOL
October 23, 200718 yr ... and thus the hunt continues... always look for the trophy marlin, but never go back to shore empty handed, even if it means you got to snag a whale LOL I refuse to go hoggin':lol:
October 23, 200718 yr Hoggin is fine, until the next morning when you have to play the game where you try to say as few words as possible to make her realize it is time to leave, you do get awarded bonus points if she calls a cab and pays for it herself before you even have to say one thing to her, points are deducted for goodbye kisses, unneccessary spooning, breakfast, and actually giving her your actual phone number when she asks how to get a hold of you...
October 23, 200718 yr I just got done with yet another 10 page paper for school. BLA I have another one due in a couple weeks, and another after that. Had to read an entire novel this past weekend. I'm not sure if I'd ever actually read an entire novel before.
October 23, 200718 yr Welcome to the BGP love connection and advice hotline.....here's your host.......00Rocket28! Hotline tip 1. Never :cry: Hotline tip 2. Lay the :fight: down.
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