And when you told her this, she bolted, right?

 

It had been a point of contention and when she gave me the "or else", I said, don't let the door hit ya in ya in the tail.

 

See when I get mad I have ZERO control over my mouth and this was one of those times. She probably would have came back the next day but I said a lot of stuff I probably shouldnt have and that kind of makes things more confusing

I see. So what is she saying now? Does she want to give it another go? Is she willing to back off of the "now or never" stance?

She doesn't know what she wants, she lives 2 hrs away and her moving there was probably our biggest problem. We were perfect till she moved, then it became an issue and it probably won't work right unless we are back in the same town. Yea, shes definitely off the get married or else thing. Heck she can't even decide she wants to be with me, so I'm like "well why did you even bother calling in the first place?" To which she responds that she missed me, well if you miss me that much then just work this out, I dunno, girls never know what they want

It sounds to me that you are right, she doesn't know what she wants. She may be not having any luck where she is now as far as men, and she is trying to play you so she can keep you as a back-up. She feels like as long as she strings you along, then she will always have someone to fall back on. I have had this done to me, and the best thing I can tell you is RUN!!!!!!!!

It sounds to me that you are right, she doesn't know what she wants. She may be not having any luck where she is now as far as men, and she is trying to play you so she can keep you as a back-up. She feels like as long as she strings you along, then she will always have someone to fall back on. I have had this done to me, and the best thing I can tell you is RUN!!!!!!!!

 

Na, I don't think she's stringing me along and her friend said that she had went on 2 dates with some dude down there and she blew him off cause she still loved me, I dunno. I believe that she misses me and her problem is definately the things I said to her and her step mother, trust me I've got a mouth:fire:

Na, I don't think she's stringing me along and her friend said that she had went on 2 dates with some dude down there and she blew him off cause she still loved me, I dunno. I believe that she misses me and her problem is definately the things I said to her and her step mother, trust me I've got a mouth:fire:

 

Is she worth it???

 

Cause you can put in the time to mend those wounds.

 

But still, having a relationship with a girl 2 hours away is going to be hard either way you stretch it. Trust has got to be a number 1 issue there.

Did I miss a rant?

Is she worth it???

 

Cause you can put in the time to mend those wounds.

 

But still, having a relationship with a girl 2 hours away is going to be hard either way you stretch it. Trust has got to be a number 1 issue there.

 

there it is

She's a great girl, all I can say, a bit childish at times but a great girl, I dunno what to do anymore, I suck at this stuff lol

I don't doubt that in the least, my friend. Just be careful. Don't jump back into anything unless you two can resolve your past problems, including the bad things that you said. If you don't straighten that stuff out, she will hold it over your head forever.

On a side note, I've been away from BGP for quite some time now (especially after b-ball season). Work has been extremely busy for the last three months or so. 11 and 12 hour days are the norm now with a lot of those hours spent driving around. A lot of my driving has changed my opinion on th Double A Highway, I think it safe. But I can see how it wouldn't be in the late night hours/ early morning.

What about the new girl?

She's a great girl, all I can say, a bit childish at times but a great girl, I dunno what to do anymore, I suck at this stuff lol

 

Rocket, I think your time would be better spent somewhere else. Trying to work out a relationship that is seperated by 2 hours is going to be hard on you and the pocket book (not to sound greedy). But if you feel she's worth it and willing to change then go for it, but be open minded...

What about the new girl?

 

Yea, don't get me started, had more issues than I cared to deal with, just remember, no matter how hot the girl is, some guy or guys are tired of her crap

I don't doubt that in the least, my friend. Just be careful. Don't jump back into anything unless you two can resolve your past problems, including the bad things that you said. If you don't straighten that stuff out, she will hold it over your head forever.

 

Yea I've definitely got more cash now that I'm not running to Bowling Green every weekend, but I'm not too worried about that