Columbus and Indianapolis have good tournaments for all levels of teams. Also Rotary Park in Dayton has some good tournaments for teams trying to step out of their local tournaments. Won't have to worry about running across a freight train of a team at 14u there.
All the top brands are good bats. Demarini, Louisville Slugger. I have to say I've never seen a Demarini CF series break. Whatever you decide look on eBay for last year's model still on the wrappers. Can save yourself 100+ on most bats.
Two Kentucky girls made the list.
Caitlin Ferguson Woodford Co.
Shelby Graybill Highlands
Hopefully the first of a few All American list to the soon to be Louisville teammates.
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