My son went thru the process of checking out both schools. We heard all about 'trinity football' from the coaches there, we also heard about...'trinity football'. With coach Glaser we heard about acedemics, we heard about 'develoing young men', we heard about the tradition of St X. to my son's surprise we heard very little about 'St X football' and heard no "Trinity bashing". What you mistook for 'arrogance' is really coach's intense PRIDE in what his program is about at ST X! My son chose ST X.