I'd guess both are true.
1) If you let one in, the place will quickly become orgy central. If they want to take care of business, her place works just fine.
2) Have you ever seen a college coach when a player throws a four letter jab at the coach? I saw the UC guys stand in place for an hour two seasons ago in that exact situation in practice. Dropping an f bomb directed at the guy in charge will go exactly as you'd expect, and isn't something that happens without a good day going wrong in a hurry...