I saw this coach when they played NDA in the region 9 playoffs. I was at the game with my 12 year old daughter. We were flabbergasted by how out of control this lady seemed to be. She yelled, kicked, screamed, grabbed her kids off the bench... Then after the game, even after being beaten badly, she was walking around the arena talking to people and seemed like the nicest lady on the planet.
I don't play for her, don't have any kids that play for her, and don't know her personally. But, that being said, seeing her coach that game made me feel bad for her team. It would seem, at least on the outside looking in, that her kids would play for her out of fear, not out of respect.