So does anything think me going to lunch with an old "friend" on mine is really that bad??? I have no intentions to go out with this girl, back when we dated I broke up with her. I didn't tell my GF about this yet. :lol: And I am pretty sure I'm not going to. I don't even know if I am going but just wanted to know what you guys think.

 

 

That depends. If your GF is jealous then I'd probably have to say no. I don't know the stability of your relationship. If she's not really jealous and it's what you wanna do then go for it. There's an old saying though, "What she don't know won't make her mad at you":D Depends on how sneaky you can be I guess.

I poked around a bit on there. How is he, you know, not arrested?

 

 

He actually talked about that. He was in prison for 10 years and got out early on probation because he agreed to do the speaking things on gambling. He got out and got married and got saved and now he speaks for a bunch of events. He's great to listen to, if you ever get the chance I'd recommend it.

Well we have been dating for about 6 years so stability is not in question. She is jealous. I am pretty sure if I go I'm not going to tell her :lol:. It's not the point that I wouldn't want her to know. Its just that it would most likely start a fight about some stupid stuff when it really doesn't mean anything. If I wanted to be with that girl I still would be.

Dude, dude...dude. It's a trap. Don't do it.

 

A.) She will find out.

 

B.) She will find out.

 

C.) She will find out.

 

D.) If you tell her and do it, see result A.

 

E.) If she is, in fact a women, and has a pulse, this is a lose-lose for you.

 

 

I have to agree though, I would think it would be hard to not find out.

Well we have been dating for about 6 years so stability is not in question. She is jealous. I am pretty sure if I go I'm not going to tell her :lol:. It's not the point that I wouldn't want her to know. Its just that it would most likely start a fight about some stupid stuff when it really doesn't mean anything. If I wanted to be with that girl I still would be.

 

You are too rational. This will not work. You are entering a world of pain, HammerTime, you are entering a world of pain.

Well we have been dating for about 6 years so stability is not in question. She is jealous. I am pretty sure if I go I'm not going to tell her :lol:. It's not the point that I wouldn't want her to know. Its just that it would most likely start a fight about some stupid stuff when it really doesn't mean anything. If I wanted to be with that girl I still would be.

 

That sentence is not understood by most female's for some reason.

She has never talked to this girl in her life they barely know each other and they don't know any people that each other are friends with.

I have 100% faith that I would get away with it.

So what exactly do we talk about in these threads..just anything worth mentioning?

So what exactly do we talk about in these threads..just anything worth mentioning?

 

 

Well at the moment we are discussing the pros and cons of dinner date with "and old friend". HT has a decision to make.

Well at the moment we are discussing the pros and cons of dinner date with "and old friend". HT has a decision to make.

It's lunch not dinner.

I have 100% faith that I would get away with it.

 

I have to ask though, if you are considering going to dinner with her it would seem there is still something there on her end or yours that your getting a vibe about.

I have 100% faith that I would get away with it.

 

I have said this 1,000,000 times. I have executed 1,000,000 perfect plans. Trust me. You are entering a world of pain.

It's lunch not dinner.

 

 

AHHH, that means the GF has a 8-5 job.

Well thats a good point BBF but she has a child and even if there was thats not something I am willing to deal with at this point.