So gays fight/die for YOU.... but ARE not trusted with your health/well-being during a conflict.... That is SAD.... They are trusted to tell you if your clothes match, what is in style and isn't and you trust them to keep a secret...
" I mean they are born straight then the choose to be gay. and all of the homosexuals that I have known say they struggle with being straight/gay. That makes them a flip-flop. If I can't trust someone to even have the integrity to choose their sexual orientation or even just say that they were bi, then I can't trust them to have my back"
What if they did tell you were gay/bi... That wouldn't change your mind..... Sorry to say your homophobic & you are disrespectful to gays.. Just because there gay doesn't mean they want you....