Below is excerpts from an article from the Ashland Independent this morning interviewing Coach Graham
Graham speaks out on OEA report, Rowan departure
Ray Graham wants to move forward.
To do that, the former Rowan County football coach felt he needed to speak publicly about his departure from the Vikings program in the midst of an Office of Education Accountability investigation, which concluded with its report in July.
Graham has taken up for himself on the record for the first time this week.
“I wanted to be able to make a statement because I care about all my players,” Graham said. “For 40 years that I’ve coached, I’ve always been a guy that’s promoted this concept right here: All for one, one for all, the team, the team, the team. Everyone’s important. Treat others the way you want to be treated. Mutual respect.”
The OEA report on its look into the Vikings program painted a different picture, of an out-of-control program where senior players routinely bullied freshmen “without fear of repercussions.” And it found Rowan County Schools Superintendent Marvin Moore and Rowan County Senior High School Principal Ray Ginter in violation of state law and school district policy by not adequately investigating parents’ and players’ claims of hazing and bullying.
Graham began a 32-minute phone interview Thursday by calling the OEA report “overzealous, incomplete and one-sided.” He took issue with the report’s tone and also disputed the accuracy of several points presented under a heading entitled “facts” in the report.
“I felt like that it was important that people that wanted to know (what happened) could hear a different aspect (than the report),” Graham said. “There are many, many people that would be willing to put their face in a camera and make comments about a totally different viewpoint than the way that the report was said. Many parents, coaches or players would be willing to step forward and make a totally different scenario.”
Graham said that he was forced out by a persistent group of “six or seven people” who didn’t like the direction of the program and “were willing to do whatever it took.”
Graham also said that he was told in a meeting with school administrators in February or March, about the time the OEA began its investigation, he had three options: to accept a suspension with pay, resign or be fired — a point disputed by Ginter.
‘Whatever it took’
Graham said he was approached by a player’s parent last offseason who didn’t like his Wing-T offense and was concerned about players’ ability to receive college scholarships coming from a once-popular run-heavy offensive system that is now not widely used.
The coach also said a parent advised him on personnel decisions, moving players to different positions.
“Anyone who knows me knows that’s barking up the wrong tree,” Graham said. “The coach and staff make personnel decisions.”
Later, at the end of the season, when Graham’s position was becoming tenuous, he said he approached the parent who had made those personnel suggestions.
“Very same parent,” Graham said. “(I said), ‘I know you know what’s going on. What do you know?’ Reply: ‘I told you who to play at that particular position.’”
That scenario would come as no surprise to Mercer County coach David Buchanan. As Mason County’s skipper, Buchanan coached against Graham-led Vikings and Harrison County teams three times.
Buchanan is also a longtime friend of Graham’s. His first memory of Graham, he said, is when Buchanan was 4 and Graham played for Danville against Boyle County, then coached by Buchanan’s father.
Buchanan said “underfunding” of high school football programs forces reliance for finances upon parents and booster clubs, which can put coaches in an uncomfortable position.
“I think what Ray’s going through, it could happen to any of us,” Buchanan said. “He loves kids, and this is a good reason why guys are getting out (of the coaching profession), is this kind of stuff. It just makes you ask yourself, is it really worth it?
“It’s getting to where there’s just too many negatives and there’s too many sacrifices. You’re really taking a big risk if you continue to coach right now.”
Ashland coach Tony Love said coaches must be resolute in trying to do right by their players — and let the rest sort itself out.
“There’s always criticism when you’re a coach,” he said, “and some of it is probably justifiable; some of it is maybe an angry parent that gets others on board with them.
“You have an obligation to treat the kids fairly, and the parents entrust you with their young men, and if you can hold your head high knowing that you did your job in taking care of them, then I don’t think you need to look over your shoulder.”
Disputed points
Graham said when he saw the OEA report, he noted several items listed as “fact” he deemed blown out of proportion, taken out of context or simply inaccurate.
He says he recalls being approached about only two incidents that could be considered hazing or bullying: a player being called a name in 2014, and a younger player having his cleat taken from a locker.
The coach said he dealt with those situations immediately.
“Anything that was ever brought to my attention, obviously, I would handle that situation to the best of my ability,” Graham said. “Anything that I ever knew about was handled, and didn’t waste any time doing it.”
Graham also said a “prank was evidently pulled” by some seniors on some freshmen at team camp near Leitchfield before last season, but that he was not told about it until the season was over.
Graham stated disagreement with the OEA’s portrayal of three events described in the report.
The first was of a concussion sustained by a player in practice. The OEA report states that it was caused “when a player kicked the head of a downed player.”
That note is sandwiched in the report between a statement that practice concussions “were inflicted primarily by junior and senior players” and that concussions were largely sustained by underclassmen, and that under Graham, “stories began to emerge of senior players mistreating underclassmen players.”
Graham takes issue with that, because he said that incident was that an eighth-grader “accidentally” stepped on the head of a freshman whose helmet had come off during a play in a scrimmage.
“I think that anyone who read the report would’ve assumed, the way it was written, that a senior had kicked a young freshman in the head on purpose,” Graham said, “(like) his helmet was off and saw a great opportunity to kick a kid in the head. ... There was no brutal act, which the report seemed to indicate.”
Another allegation stated as fact in the report was an underclassman player forced to climb on a roof to retrieve his clothes, and becoming injured in the process in a manner that “affected his ability to play football that season.”
Graham said he was told by players that a frisbee had ended up on the roof, and one senior had thrown another senior’s cleat onto the roof. An underclassman “volunteered to get that off,” Graham said.
“I did ask him, ‘Did someone make you get up there?’” Graham said. “‘No, coach, I volunteered to go up there.’”
The report also states that upperclassmen forced underclassmen to drink “an unknown concoction” at camp. Graham said that incident did not happen as stated, but that a freshman had urinated in another freshman’s Gatorade bottle.
“No senior urinated in anybody’s bottle,” Graham said. “No senior forced anybody to drink anything.”
Didn’t like the tone
In addition to portraying a rudderless program, the report negatively depicts the last two years' Rowan County upperclassmen, Graham said.
“Those are just a couple examples of what was in the report that if you read it, you would think, what kind of guys are up there?” Graham said. “But these are fine young men ... they’ve got great moms and dads, and I know that hurt them when they read that, and I know how upset it made the boys to be reading something like that.”
Graham wasn’t the only one to notice.
“It depicted us as thugs, and as people who didn’t care about others’ well-being or that we lacked empathy or that we were bullies,” said Devin Helvey, a senior Viking last fall. “It makes you feel a little angry that adults would say that about teenagers and depict us in that way, as if we weren’t teammates with those freshmen or underclassmen.
“I think that bothered a lot of us in a way that we can’t change, but seeing adults talk about minors in that way was kind of disheartening.”
Graham, instead, touted his seniors’ leadership, citing an event at camp when seniors stopped freshmen from going on an unsupervised night trip against Graham’s orders to Nolin Reservoir Lake, which bordered their camp near Leitchfield.
“Now I spent a great deal of time with my seniors about accountability, dependability, leadership,” Graham said. “I spent a great deal of time with them, and I’m very proud of the fact that they bought into that and they tried to be good leaders. They’re teenage boys, and they tried to be the kind of leaders that were gonna set a standard of excellence in Rowan County football that would go on and continue and make Rowan County football strong.”
Dillon Thomas, a sophomore last season, started a petition in the school in support of Graham last spring. He said he doesn’t recall being bullied or hazed by seniors either of his two seasons playing for Graham.
“The two years coach Graham was with us, I was a freshman and sophomore,” Thomas said, “and I think if anybody would have a picture of (hazing), I think I would be one of them.”
Two sides of a meeting
Graham also said he was initially given a vote of confidence after last season. The Vikings finished 2015 strong, winning two of their final regular season games after a 3-4 start before a competitive loss at Scott in the first round of the playoffs.
But talk of Graham leaving soon began to swirl, he said, and he said he asked for a meeting with the administration to “see where we stand.”
Graham said he was told in that meeting that he is “the kind of guy that we’d want coaching our grandson” and that “we’re 100 percent behind you.”
Graham goes on to say a meeting in “late February or early March” had a much different tone.
“I was told that I had three options: one was to resign, second was to take a temporary suspension with pay, the third one was to get fired,” he said.
Graham said the reasoning he was given for those options was the alleged hazing, and events occurring at a Fellowship of Christian Athletes camp that he said was not mandatory for the Vikings to attend.
Graham said he was accused of imploring players to pick up Bibles and FCA T-shirts and wear an FCA tag at a camp. Graham said the camp was not mandatory, and neither was participating in the Christian activity at camp. He said about 40 players participated.
“No one voiced any displeasure,” Graham said. “Everyone knew they were going to an FCA camp. No one was forced to go. Players that were not at either camp were on the team and played last year.”
Graham refused to resign.
“There was no way I was going to walk away and make someone who was reading news and hearing things think that I had any kind of guilt at all over any of this stuff,” he said.
Graham was suspended and barred from contact with school personnel. Eventually, his contract wasn’t renewed.
That account of the meeting isn’t how Ginter remembers it. He said he was present with Graham and assistant principal Ed Jones, and that “we never mentioned the word ‘being fired,’ ever.”
Ginter said Graham asked him what he would do in Graham’s position.
“I said, ‘I’d go to the house,’” Ginter said, meaning retire. “I thought I was talking to him as a friend. That wasn’t anything to do with me as an administrator. We never said, ‘You’re gonna be fired.’”
Graham’s supporters
Graham said he knew immediately when he returned to Rowan County in 2014, having skippered the Vikings from 1980-82, that he wanted to “change the culture.”
“I don’t know exactly what it was like before I got there, but I know it’s always been important to me to try to make a positive culture, and it’s very important to me to treat every young man like I would want my son treated or my grandson,” Graham said. “I coached my own son, so I know what that’s like, and I’ve always taken the approach that every player is somebody’s son. I want them being treated fairly.”
Two of his former players said Graham succeeded in that regard.
“I feel like he was more like a father figure towards us,” Thomas said. “He was a coach, but then again, he showed us football wasn’t just a sport, it was about life, and he always told us to have fun with the sport and always treat it like we would a job or life in general.”
Helvey concurred and reciprocates.
“I feel bad that I can’t do more for coach Graham, but me and him have the understanding that he told me to focus on football and class, and my spirit,” said Helvey, now a freshman football player at Kentucky Christian. “That’s my agreement to him, and I’ll always help him in any way that I can.”
Graham said he attended freshman and junior varsity games between Rowan County and Harrison County on Monday, and that he was approached by the young Vikings.
“And so I obviously hug them, tell them hi, good luck, stuff like that,” Graham said. “So after the freshman game was over ... the JV team came down and one of them said, ‘Coach, we want you to do something for us. Would you do this for us?’ I said, ‘What?’ He said, ‘Would you pray with us?’ So I said, ‘All you all really want me to do that?’ They said, ‘Yes, coach.’
“So I thought that spoke volumes to me, that each player had just seen me and that’s what they wanted me to do before the JV game.”
Graham said he’s received “an overwhelming outpouring of support” from friends, fellow coaches and former players.
‘No hard feelings’
Despite all this, Graham said he takes a content demeanor to his new job as an assistant coach at Georgetown College and that he still “love(s) Rowan County Schools.”
“I’m happy. I want Rowan County happy,” Graham said. “I want everybody happy going forward and doing the best they can, and I want everybody to know that. I’ve moved on, Rowan County’s moving on forward.”
He also expressed favor for his successor as Vikings coach, Gene Peterson.
“I’m very confident in Gene Peterson being the kind of guy that I would have hired, and I told Gene that,” Graham said, “that he would be the kind of guy that I want coaching players that I care about, which I care about them very much.”
Now he turns his focus to the Tigers.
“I am where God wants me,” Graham said. “I think it’s more important to be spiritually correct than politically.”