I agree with Blue Beetle. Holding back your kid for sport reasons is just telling them they are good but not good enough to play with the kids their age, let's give you and extra year and then you'll be the big dog. So wrong!!
The family with the 3 kids weren't given any financial help and had to withdraw all of their children, these kids didn't play any sports, yet a great basketball player that lived in another state was provided transportation and a scholarship.
Back in the OJ days, there were two siblings who had attended RH since preschool, a third child was ready to enter kindergarten. The parents applied for partial scholarship help for having 3 kids at the school and they were denied. These 2 kids had gone to RH for years because of it being a christian school, yet they send a bus to huntington and this athlete's tuition is being paid for by scholarship or private donations. Is this right. All 3 kids now attend public school.