Page 3 of Originally Posted by PutMeInCoach That's proally worse, girls gossip more than guys. Who knows what was said if they were both drunk.. Thats kind of wh... 133 comments | 3621 Views | Go to page 1 →
Sep 5, 07, 07:27 AM #31
Originally Posted by rockmom
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Sep 5, 07, 07:34 AM #32
Originally Posted by BucksFan
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That, again, is just my opinion, and I am an amateur at this so don't be holding me accountable.
Sep 5, 07, 07:59 AM #33Originally Posted by 00Rocket28
Obviously she's still wanting something if she was upset when you changed your status. I would give her a week, let her go through the weekend. Then maybe Monday or Tuesday shoot her a text or call her. If she hasn't sucked up her pride by then it's time to move on.
Just remember to keep yourself busy when you have some down time. It worked wonders for me.
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Sep 5, 07, 08:07 AM #34Her name isn't Leigh is it? If so, run, run far away.
If not, talk to her. Nothing gets done or resolved without talking to each other about your feelings for each other. TALK, TALK, TALK even if it takes all night Talk it out.
Sep 5, 07, 08:17 AM #35
When I was very young and having a similar problem, a very wise old man told me that women are like busses. If you miss one, another comes along every ten minutes.
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Of course, that particular young lady and I will have been married for thirty years next Spring, so what do I know.
Sep 5, 07, 08:23 AM #36It really depends what route you want to take. You can talk it out or you can give her space/time to think about this. Each side has its pros & cons.
She's got to forgive herself before she'll take you back. Believe me, I know this from experience.
Sep 5, 07, 09:36 AM #37The pig in me says stay away from her and start dating her best friend.
The softer side of me that I don't let how much says if you really are into this lady set down and talk and do not walk away from the talk until both of you are sure what the problem is and if the problem can be worked out.
Sep 5, 07, 09:42 AM #38Originally Posted by Watusi
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Sep 5, 07, 09:46 AM #40Originally Posted by TheDeuce
seems like that would be a fault in whole trust thing...
Sep 5, 07, 09:49 AM #41I think it's more of a history thing then a trust thing.
Sep 5, 07, 10:05 AM #42Originally Posted by Watusi
1. She went out of town w/ the girl I dont care for the whole weekend
2. we had to help her best friend and husband who doesnt like me cuz of our thing we had move
3. Went home to her parents where you have to kind of not be a couple cause your not married (no big deal)
4. Her little sister was there the whole weekend, same rules as above applied
5. This was supposed to be our weekend that I asked for on weekend number 2. I secretly planned us getting a cabin at a winery for the weekend.
6. Wedding shower out of town
7. Bachlorette part out of town
So on weekend number 4 I asked if we were still on for #5, she said yes, then on sunday night of weekend 4 she told me she was going to hang out with her friend that we helpped move and who was going to be with her the next 2 weekends. So here she has broke plans with me. I then explained what I had planned for us, didnt matter, she didnt want to hurt the friends feelings by breaking plans with her. Thats been a problem, she has no problem hurting mine but wont say boo to her friends.
After we had the whole fight thing I became pre occupied with her friends being mad and talking about me because we had a fight. This bothered her and it should have, its our relationship, not theres so I shouldnt care what they think but I'm one of those people that want everyone to like me. So thats kind of how we got here
Sep 5, 07, 10:08 AM #43
After reading that post I say move on man. She obviously don't make enough time for you thats messed up.
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Sep 5, 07, 11:33 AM #44
I agree.. It has to go both ways and it sounds like its a one sided fight..
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Sep 5, 07, 11:36 AM #45I'm just gonna have to deal with it and each day it will get easier. Try and get myself over this, if she decides she wants to try then we can give it a go but I can't keep beating myself up over this. Worrying will do me no good except make me sick. Shes a smart girl, she will come around, i hope