Jan 2, 17, 06:49 PM
As I said before, I never spanked my children. It never seemed right for me.
My mom spanked us though. However, it was never extreme, and when it was over, it was over. She never played mind games. The rules were clear and fair. She never ridiculed us or beat us down verbally. Quite honestly, spankings were pretty rare and there were 8 of us. I grew up well adjusted, as far as I can tell.
There are lots of ways to abuse kids...